Is it normal, i can't seem to forgive my mom & all family?
My family had a FAMILY REUION this summer. I come from big family, and yet no one bother to call me and invited me to the family reuion. Plus, they also took family pictures with out me. When, I asked, that I'm the darkest in the family, how could they not see that? Asked, why did I have to find out on Facebook? I saw bunch of my family pictures, having good time. It was like, someone just stab me. What's even worse, that my mom had just called me, week before the reuion, and yet she didnh't say a word to me. When, I called my mom, asked her what's going on and what's with family reuion gathering? Why, was I not been told? All, she said, that she wasn't in charge. When, I said, it shouldn't matter, whoes was in charge, were all one big family,and yet not a one person called. Asked why didn't she tell me during our phone call, week before? She and everyone else made me feel, like I didn't even exist anymore. This isn't the first time, they've done this, and I'm pretty sure, it won't be the last. I know, it's been two months, and I should grow up and forgive them. People tell me, life is too short just forgive them and move on. I try to take there advices many times and swalled it, but when it's been happening way too many time, it's kind of hard not to stay mad. Once, I found out who was in charge of the party, I sent her message, saying; if you didn't want me to find out, than you shouldn't advertise it on facebook, for national world to see. For a teacher, not so brite,to know what WWW stands for. So, is it normal, that it still hurts me and just can't let ago. Any advice?