Is it normal i can't get naked in front of my boyfriend?

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Well, I'll make this story short. I've a boyfriend and i love him very much. We've been already a while together. Well, like every normal couple: we have sexytime (If you know what I mean). However every time we have it, he tries to get me naked. (It's normal). The thing is: I'm not comfortable with my body. I'm not exactly thin. I'm 5ft 2 in high and I weight 127 pounds. and my boobs, well... One of my boobs is bigger than the other, and it has a really strange form. I'm really ashamed of them so I can't get naked. I have told my boyfriend already and he seems not to care, however I just can;t do it and I want to do it. I want to be proud of my body and get naked every time I want. I want to be able of getting naked without being ashamed of myself.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Partners rarely see the flaws in each other's body. There arrives a point where you just don't care about sizes etc... I'm sure that he has already pass that point.

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    • forever_anon
      11 years ago

      This. OP, I can assure you that when your guy looks at you, he probably isn't seeing the same flaws that you do. Instead, he's thinking about how soft your skin is and how much he enjoys touching it. The reservations you feel are evidence that you don't accept yourself as he does. I've had the same problem. What helped me was knowing that even though my body may not be perfect, it has the power to bring me pleasure, and that my partner is happy with it.

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  • unusually
    9 years ago

    127 pounds? Damn. That's a very nice weight, honey. What Id do to weigh 127 pounds...

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  • truercheese
    11 years ago

    It's very normal to be insecure. But since you've been with your boyfriend for a while, and you say you love him, you should be able to feel comfortable around him.
    Don't be afraid, if he says he doesn't care, then he doesn't. If you finally take your clothes off in front of him, he's not gonna go running away, he's a guy, he's gonna love to see any part of you, and when he realizes you love him enough and feel comfortable enough to get past your insecurities for him, he'll probably feel that your relationship is even stronger than before.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    different-sized boobs are very normal, and most of the time the only one who notices is you. Your boyfriend obviously loves you and has decided that despite (or because of, or miscellaneous) your weight he wants to be with you. He's not gonna get you naked for sex then go "ha ha you're fat", because chances are he's a little self-conscious about his own body too (even if he doesn't act like it)

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  • Unimportant
    11 years ago

    My advice might seem a little weird, but you could get really drunk and do it then. It takes off the edge.

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  • flipshitfit
    11 years ago

    It's totally normal, but I hope you're able to be comfortable with your body before too long. I was ashamed of body when I was young, and now that I'm older I realize I should have taken advantage of my banging, youthful body when I had the chance haha. And btw it's totally normal to have one boob that's bigger than the other, you shouldn't worry about it so much :)

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    • forever_anon
      11 years ago

      Isn't it the truth? When I was a teen/young adult, I wish somebody had told me, "You're in the best shape of your life right now! Enjoy it!" But I had pretty bad self-esteem and probably wouldn't have listened. I guess youth really is wasted on the young.

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Being shy can be a big turn on too.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    He isn't gonna put you down girl. Calm down. Be confident. It's sexy. Just be totally naked under the covers or with all the lights off till you get more comfortable. And yeah, guys aren't usually that nit picky. If he has you half naked, the las thing he is gonna do is say "WTF IS THAT!" Or whatever lol.

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  • Nympho2013
    11 years ago

    Okay, my problem is that my breasts are very small, but confidence is key. It's like a pimple that just popped up on your cheek; guys rarely notice those things unless you point them out so he probably thinks you're just perfect.

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  • jpl714
    11 years ago

    I promise he does not see different size boobs and since he is sleeping with you couldn't care if one was an a cup and the other a d cup...

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  • dude_Jones
    11 years ago

    It might be helpful when you are alone, to do nude housecleaning/cooking. You also need to become accustom to the "feel" of being nude.

    Crawl into a warm bathtub full of bubbles with this guy. Candles, champagne, and whatever comes next.

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