Is it normal i can only cum fingering myself?

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i have had sex with a few guys, and none of them have ever made me feel as good as i can myself. it kinda of worry's me.

i have been with my boyfriend for three months, and hes big enough, perfect size, but still i haven't been able to cum unless i did it myself. i have to lie to him and fake it, because still, after all this time, i just can not cum from any one except me.. is that normal? is there something wrong with me?

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    I've only been with a few people, but no one can make me cum like I do. Sex is over rated, and I will stick with my hand and infinite fantasies.

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  • nkwacky
    10 years ago

    Are you a guy or a girl? O.0

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    • on_no_its_jamie
      10 years ago

      im a girl

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    • peterrabbyt2
      10 years ago

      If you are a guy maybe a little up the ass stuff will work eh?

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      • on_no_its_jamie
        10 years ago

        im not a guy lol

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        • peterrabbyt2
          10 years ago

          Then you are perfect for me.

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          • on_no_its_jamie
            10 years ago

            why??

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  • peterrabbyt2
    10 years ago

    I could make you cum for sure!

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    When you really become close to someone and can share openly, then he can fulfill your needs and desires if he truly wants you pleased more than him. But often both being inexperienced gets in the way of the right technique for each other! Share with him your needs and both will enjoy more!

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    No there's something wrong with the technique you guys are using while you're having sex. When you masturbate do you focus a lot on the clitoris? It might be that you need more stimulation there during sex. It might also be a mental thing, you've subconsciously convinced yourself that you can't cum unless you do it yourself

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    • on_no_its_jamie
      10 years ago

      i do focus more on the clitoris when i masterbate, so when im having sex how do i get that? whats the best postion? im just getting really bored of not being able to have a orgasm..

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      • quentari
        10 years ago

        Try you on top in a cowgirl or reverse cowgirl so that you can move your hands until you get better at manipulating yourself. If you find that it improves with the clit but you can't quite get there I recommend getting a vibrating cock ring or small vibrator to hold against your clit :)

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