Is it normal i can not get over my girlfriend

I dont know what to do anymore. I cant get over my ex girlfriend. Its been over 7 months now. Shes already moved on but i cant. I am still madly in love with her, I cant live without her, I am going absolutely crazy and its soo much harder that shes with someone else already. I tried talking to other women but I only want her. What the hell do i do? someone please help im dieing

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  • melloelf

    everyone gets over someone in their own way with their own amount of time, there is no certain time period or quick way to get over someone.
    i can only suggest keeping your mind off her, think of it this way if you want (it's a little cruel but its how i see it) they broke up with you, they have moved on and don't give 2 shits about past feelings, so why should you?

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    • lonelysoul

      I wish it was that easy. I have been telling myself that. I try to hate her for it but i cant help the way i feel. Love is a fucking bitch.

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      • plum6

        I have had a similar thing with my ex-gf, I really wanted to forget about her or even start disliking her but it's just not that easy indeed. Naturally time is supposed to take care of this but in the meantime try to focus your attention on other women and your own social and professional life. It's a matter of changing priorities.

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  • Justsomejerk

    It might take years, you may never get over her.

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  • dirtybirdy

    Try a trampoline. Or stilts. I can not help any further on this matter

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  • Fuckthenorm

    Are you still not talking to everyone in your life? How did it go? I want to end all communication with everyone I know right now. Just wondering if you would share .?

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  • chatter289

    Aww Hun *big hugs*. It's harder to get over someone when you have not found someone else. You have to give room for someone else to come into your life. Things have happened and you can't change it, I hate saying it but it's true. You will be fine my lovely just keep your head up xx

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    It's normal. I'm not over my gf either and that was in 2009. :-(

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  • davesumba

    usually takes about 6 months..but to get over her you need to stop talking to her if you haven't, and stop thinking about her, eventually the feelings go away, it just takes time.

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