Is it normal i can not feel the pain of breakup at will?

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So i have ended a relationship and the girl i'm finishing with is trying to hurt me on purpose by basicly being a bitch in every way conceivable either by trying to make me jealous or by treating me poorly (i have to be near her for now but i will leave very very soon)
All of this after she took advantage of me... (using me for her own needs and then cheating on me and somehow make it my fault)
All of this shit and it's my birthday, fucking yay!!!
And i was feeling like shit but then i found out i can just will myself to feel happy for no aparent reason i simply decided i will feel happy and i do....
Ís it normal?
or have i gone insane?

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  • Chillpill
    12 years ago

    It looks like you haven't suffered a great loss there with the way she was treating you. And her behaviour now just confirms that you're better off without her. Don't waste any more emotional resources on her. Move on instead and be happy!

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  • ggeineg
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal. How you feel is your choice. It's all about having the right mindset. If you wanna mope and cry after you're breakup, then you will be miserable but if you wanna be happy and move on, then you will be :) you have ultimate control over yourself. And I think what your doing is very normal and wayyyy better than being sad

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    Ugh. What a whore. Gave me a bad taste in my mouth reading this. I feel for u man. Some girls can be absolute heartless hell cats that care about nothing but themselves. Just move on. There is someone out there that will treat you the way you deserve and not sleep around on u

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  • DuinFlipsNshioT
    12 years ago

    Yea I've done that before its kind of a way of suppressing feelings and I do it a lot just every once and awhile it comes out. Its called bottling things in and some people do it till they go crazy. Watch Me, Myself and Irene. Its funny but actually happens just not to that extent haha.

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