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My bf is going out of the country for a while so I bought him a fleshlight to pleasure himself with. is it normal or does it make it less hot if your gf buys you a sex toy?
You are a wonderful wonderful woman. You are thinking ahead, anticipating his loneliness and his needs, and helping him correct that problem! Besides even though i'm not leaving the country i'd be stoked if I had a girl friend buy me one! Every guy masturbates, so it's not abnormal at all!
You cheaped out you shoulda bought him a "realdoll" Now he might have to cheat on you.
On the contrary, I think it makes it even hotter. TerryVie's way sizzling hot! As for me, I confess my total ignorance. I had no idea what a fleshlight was. I thought it was a typo and asked myself "Wha tha fah? The man's supposed to pleasure himself with a flashlight? How tha hell he gonna do that??"
There's nothing wrong with using a sex toy.
Although if you're afraid of talking about masturbation it may be a big step since using one - or buying one for your bf - means that you have to admit that it's happening.
but a toy... that just makes things easier sometimes.
hm. i believe you could make it "more hot" by using it together with him for the first time. Have him relax and you stimulate him to orgasm with the fleshlight. Also masturbate yourself at the same time if you are fine with that, maybe find a position where he has a good luck at you fingering your pussy while being stimulated by the fleshlight, and try to come together.
Then he always has a memory to think back to when he uses it himself.
As in, of course you want the REAL thing as much as possible before he leaves, but adding such a "memory" to the gift will make it a lot more "pleasurable" to use when he's alone.
At least, i'd hope so :)