Is it normal i blame my mom for this happening?

Well when I was about 17 I got raped by my cousin. I went to the police,detectives did there work but said that it wasn't his DNA that was on my body (which wassssss his DNA!.) Soon after this happened to me I found out my mother, when she was younger she was molested by him. If my mother was molested why would she leave me in his care for him to do what he did to me? After,she told me she erased it from her mind so when I was abused she remembered her abuse. Honestly,I wanted to spit in her face because if she knew this discusting man did this to me she would have thought again when she left me with him. I blame her for what happened to me. Is this normal?

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33% Normal
Based on 3 votes (1 yes)
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  • ReoKado

    Wow, it's either your mother is carefree or she's a real idiot (even if it brings bad memories), to leave her kid with her prior molester is a ridiculously stupid scenario. As for the docs. you might want to check for the records or since I'm guessing you're a minor you might just want to see about getting another adult to support you and gain custody over yourself (if you're over 16). But yeah, your family sounds as f*cked up as my prior family so many years back.

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  • Not a minor anymore but since being in that situation I've moved away on my own and soon to be police officer. Thanks for your comment :-D

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