Is it normal i believe that porn needs to change?
Or at least a new sort of category.
I would call it a bit more "women friendly", but then I don't know what sort of porn fellow women actually enjoy. But every porn film I see I don't enjoy. I find it boring and it does not turn me on. It's just two people going at it (way too energetic) and as a woman, I can clearly see the woman isn't actually enjoying herself, it's all an act and she's frickin bored. Or is just someone idiot shoving his dick up her ass. I hate that.
What turns me on is passion. You can tell when two people are having sex with each other and they have genuine chemistry together. That's what turns me on. I like it to be real, and if it's not then at least trick me into thinking it is. I want to see him have some good grinding, slow, deep hip movement. Not just shoving it in and out like a frickin rabbit. I want to see them heavy breathing, expressions on their faces to show me it's good. Not giving each other that horrible, fake look that is supposed to look sexy and "come at me tiger" but in fact it's cringey.
I have tried to masturbate to porn before on numerous occasions. Either I turned it off half way through out of pure frustration or turned my head away as it was annoying. I was watching a film last night and randomly decided to masturbate. About 10 minutes into masturbating a sex scene came on, and there was another not long after. These sex scenes were sensual, looked real, had meaning, passionate, they were crazy for each other and just wanted sex so bad. He was on top of her, really close to her body, rubbing against her whilst doing a good, slow grinding, deep hip movement. Basically, this resulted in me having two mind blowing orgasms. The latter the best orgasm I have ever experienced in my entire life! And I have been masturbating for six years!
Why can't we have porn like this instead?! I've only mentioned this to one other female and she feels the exact same way. I would love to know your opinions. is it normal I want porn to change, to make it more attractive for females? I want something to masturbate to too! I feel as if we aren't being provided for and trust me, I have searched high and low all over the internet for this sort of porn. I found a few of genuine amateur couples which was ok, but because they were amateur, a crap camera placed in one position in the corner of the room just wasn't sufficient enough.