Is it normal i barely get hit on

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How do you know when a guy is hitting on you? Does a guy staring (with a neutral expression) at you count as being hit on? If not, then I barely get hit on by men. They never approach me or ask me for my number. I feel unattractive as a result. I don't know what I am doing wrong to not have men ask me out. I am young girl at age 21, I go to the gym to workout and keep in shape and I also wear makeup to look presentable. Yes, I don't go to bars or clubs, but women don't have to go to those places to get hit on.

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Based on 44 votes (33 yes)

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Anewbis

7 years ago

I used to be practically paralysed trying to talk to pretty girls when I was around that age.

God, the anxiety...
The possible rejection...
What if she says yes?!?!?!

Quick! Somebody get me a paper bag!

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jsnpq

7 years ago

There is a good chance that something about you is intimidating. It could be that you are really pretty. It could be a serious case of resting bitch face. Perhaps you carry yourself in an unapproachable way. Here is a tip that I really think is going to help you, when you see a guy staring at you with a neutral look go ahead and smile at him and if he smiles back or gives you a nod then he was probably checking you out for interest. He may be afraid to smile first. Also, in our day and age, it is appropriate for you as the woman to hit on a guy. To flirt. To ask out. All that kind of thing... lots of guys like it and even prefer it. A lot of guys are just intimidated by women in general or have been taught that being forward about attraction and desire is disrespectful and so they are kind of trapped in a place where they feel they cant do anything but hope and wait for a forward and obviously flirtatious girl which can be hard to differentiate from a girl who is just being nice, like at her job for instance. If you are worried about your looks and makeup go to the cosmetic section at a department store and ask the ladies for their opinions and tips. Cultivate a personal style, often a woman with good style ends up prettier than she would be in something typical or average.

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kingofcarrotflowers

7 years ago

You know you can approach men too right

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- TheManWhoHauntedGhosts
  
  7 years ago
  
  I find the best way for a woman to approach a man is to walk up to them and immediately go for an over the pants handjob.
  
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AbnormallyAwesome

7 years ago

You don't have to wait for men to hit on you. Some guys are just to shy to talk to pretty girls. If there's a guy you like you can just take the initiative. That's what my girlfriend did and it worked. I would probably never have worked up the courage.
But if you really need men to hit on you, the easiest way is to look them in the eye and smile. That's very encouraging.
Just don't play with them if you're not actually interested - That's cruel.

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arthurtheaardvark99

7 years ago

Maybe they are intimidated.

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- RoseIsabella
  
  7 years ago
  
  My sister was a model, and she intimated a lot of people, but that's more about the fact that she has a bitchy resting face than just her physical beauty. I kinda have to train myself to scowl when the wrong people look at me. My sister always tells me I have a friendly, approachable face. The good part is that I have gotten let go by the cops when it comes to tickets, but the bad part is people thinking I wouldn't mind their unwanted attention.
  
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RoseIsabella

7 years ago

I'd rather not get hit on than have creepy, old pervs bothering me. Don't let other people define your self worth.

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- TheManWhoHauntedGhosts
  
  7 years ago
  
  How old is old?
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    7 years ago
    
    It's subjective. The point is that I don't find unwanted attention to be flattering. I don't need to define myself by the opinions of others regarding my physical appearance. If I don't find another person attractive or interesting his or her unwanted attentions toward me are at best insignificant and at worst disgusting when that person wastes time showing his or her interest in more than platonic friendship from me.
    
    You might not like what I have to say, but it's how I feel, and I'm entitled to my feelings; I ain't changing for no-damn-body.
    
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shutyourdirtyfilthyfucknmouth

7 years ago

Short skirts,no knickers,slightly open legs!!

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thereaper1

7 years ago

walk around with one boob hanging out.
this will increase your odds of getting hit on.
you're welcome .

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biirdprince

7 years ago

maybe ur an ugly barnacle

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sourgrapes

7 years ago

Yes its bloody well normal.ffs.

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[Old Memory]

7 years ago

Perhaps they don't find you attractive? Everyone has their preferences. For our opinion post pics.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  So a guy who stares still isn't attracted to me unless he approaches?
  
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  - RazoRTR
    
    7 years ago
    
    Three possibilities:
    1-He's attracted to you and having fantasies about you.
    2-He's a desperate pervert and having fantasies about you.
    3-He thinks how ugly and despicable you are.
    
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DOUCHEBAGTWATS

7 years ago

Stare at his crotch and see if his cock is popping a boner.
The bulge in his drawers will tell if he is hitting on you.

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