Is it normal i asked my gilfriend if i could kiss before i kissed her?

I am sort of old fashioned when it comes to a relationship, so I am unsure.

Right before I kissed my girlfriend, I asked her " may I kiss you " then after she replied yes, I kissed her.

I was wondering if that is normal, or not?

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Based on 87 votes (72 yes)
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  • yomorris

    Totally normal! Very romantic(:

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  • bigguy2010

    I also asked the last girl I dated for permission before I kissed her for the first time. She refused.

    However, she kissed me on the next date. That was nine years ago... and we are still happily married.

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  • soccer2

    I would say this is more rare. Very sweet and cute though lol

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  • phullofit

    its a little unusual seeming. i've dated my girlfriend for 3 weeks now and we have yet to kiss, i want to kiss her for the first time at a special moment. It also seems very respectful what you did. All that matters is that she didn't care that you asked, and if she liked it than its all good.

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  • acepenta@gmail

    that is just so brilliant and it is absolutely normal, respectful and decent....you continue respecting the lady....she deserves respect

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  • korn3654

    Takes the excitement out of it.

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  • Wow i didn't know that there are boys like you in ourdays.Ofcourse it's normal and not only normal but very nice of you.I'm sure your girlfriend liked that)))

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  • bleach_baby

    what a massive turn off

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  • umph

    You are a gentleman. So what? You are not alone. There are another 20 people like you on Earth.

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  • ibreathelectric

    So sweet!

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  • TwoThumbs

    yeah...don't do that. I asked this girl if I could kiss her once...She was incredibly attractive. Had a totally different background than me. I grew up in a blue collar household and her folks were doctors. I was drunk (in college) and I have no idea what I was thinking...but I asked she laughed and said she was going to sleep. I slept on the couch. The next day my best friend (and her roommate), a female, asked me why I asked her if I could kiss her. That if I did it, it would have been fine but it was awkward. I'd never done it before and I never did it again (I'm married now). That said. It could be sweet I guess maybe...maybe...but you're better off just going in for it. Women like a man that is assertive.

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  • 4theloveofdez

    My boyfriend asked me before he kissed me. It was such a sweet and shy moment but the moment his lips touched mine omg. aw. I love him so much don't mind me.

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  • I asked before I kissed my girl friend

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  • Aaahhhwwwww how freaking sweet!! The only man that ever asked me that I ended up marrying. We're no longer together but besides the point. Good for u and don't ever change. Women dig that shit!

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  • Awww i wish guys were more like you :)

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  • Seemed a little odd to me at first then I realized that when I kiss a girl I almost always ask first. Very sexy when you do it that way.

    I've found most guys seldom need words. The question is implied through body language.

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  • kingofthedust

    I would feel bad if I tried to force it on her. What if she doesn't want to kiss? I always ask first.

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  • amessage22

    respect!

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  • Uglyduckling

    awww really cute!~
    you've got my respect buddy! ^-^

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  • Vvn

    Adorable, i reckon

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  • onlyemperor

    really sweet!)

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  • Mitsyrules

    I had a guy do that to me...I loved it. It shows that he respects you.

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  • If a guy asked me that I'd be surprised he cared enough to ask!

    In so much as it would shock me because most guys just go for it without even asking, so it's sweet and really nice that you asked her!

    It's refreshing to know there's still nice guys about, keep being you! :D

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  • Elegy

    Wooooooow thats extraordianry things nowdays.For me its normal and sweet but you should know is it normal for your girlfriend

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  • soccer2

    Haha yes it's been awhile

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    You should let it naturally happen. What are you gonna do in the sack? ''May I please put my erect penis in your lubricated vagina?'' "May I please rub your boobs?''

    Just go for it next time man, tell her who's boss.

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  • DannyKanes

    Hey soccer2 is back :-D Haven't seen you on here in ages

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