Is it normal i apologize for forgetting my id at home?

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My boyfriend and I were getting ready to go to the movies and I was ready and waiting for him. We left and were on our way to pick up his cousin. We were 5 miles out and I tell him "you are going to kill me." he said "why?" I reply "I forgot my ID" we are silent the whole way we went to pick his cousin. after we picked him up he drove back to get it and says "hurry up!" I run to get it. I get back into the car and the whole way ride to the movies he is not talking to me and sort of ignores me. While at the movies after the trailers were over I lean on him and he asks why I am leaning on him. I said because I want to be close to you. During the movie he warms up to me more and more. We walk out the movies holding hands. But today he says I waited yesterday to see if you were going to apologize for forgetting your ID and if you were going to make it up to me. After he asked how much money do I have to pay for gas money. Basically he is pissed I haven't apologized about forgetting my ID and not making it up to him. He will not be speaking to me until make it up. I am confused about me and making this up. Should I?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    If I were you, I would probably just not bother to see him again. He sounds like a total creep. Anyone (except me, of course) can make a mistake and to be treated like shit for it, is totally unacceptable. It sounds like you got to the movies in plenty of time and that had you not forgotten your ID, you would have been there way too early.
    Pay for the gas? Really? Bend over and give him some gas.
    I think this creep needs to go.

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  • Gonfaloniere
    9 years ago

    I had a boyfriend like that...note the past tense. Pretty soon you will be apologizing for having a headache, for being sick, and even for his mistakes. One time my ex was mad at me when HE forgot his ID, because I didn't remind him. It may be hard to admit, but if you break up with him now, you won't have to continue living out a life of apology and apprehension.

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    You should leave him. It sounds like hes only going to get worse and make your life miserable.

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  • dom180
    9 years ago

    I don't think it's normal. It seems like a super trivial thing for him to be pissed over. Is he often like this?

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    • annie20
      9 years ago

      he is like this all the time. For any little mistake and if I don't apologize and he tells me why is mad and he is waiting for the apology and I try to talk things over he say get fuck away from me because for him I am too late and he had to point it out.

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      • dom180
        9 years ago

        He sounds like an asshole. No-one deserves to be treated like that. I think you would be better off without him and you ought to be strong and break up with him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Dump him like a hot, steaming pile of dog shit that he is!

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