Is it normal i amnot sure about my sexuality

i am very depressed i am not sure about my sexuality i am not interested in guys women i feel sad wanna be loved to have someone close to me

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77% Normal
Based on 122 votes (94 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • WonderGuy0103

    Completely normal. No matter what your age, it is normal and it is perfectly OK. Take your time, think, explore, and find outside resources. You may be straight, bi, gay, or even none of the above. Find support, and you will be happy. It's completely normal to be unsure. You're just one of the brave few to admit it.

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    • jasonkirk

      thank you

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  • Koda

    Completely, utterly normal. I think the biggest sociosexual error we've made as a society is creating these confining labels that everyone feels they have to fit into.

    Whoever you are sexually, it's normal. You are who you are. It's not something you should worry or wonder about beyond your feelings toward specific people. It's PEOPLE that love and sex are about, not frickin' "lifestyles" or "orientations".

    You don't even have to "come out" or tell anyone anything if you don't want to, just be yourself and love who you want to. It's your business only. Period. (:

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    • jasonkirk

      thank you

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      • Koda

        yw (:

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  • thegypsysailor

    You know, a lover should be a very good friend. Why don't you forget all about labeling yourself and just go make some friends. I'm sure in time, some of your friends will become closer friends than others, and you might get your answer then.

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    • jasonkirk

      thank you

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  • NyanStrike

    That's fine! Love who you want! It took me a while to figure out my sexuality but I did! I know who I love so just be patient and figure it out! <3

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  • Nokiot9

    Remember. Having someone to love doesn't mean sex all the time or ever in some cases. A Abstinent relationship can be just as loving as a sexual one.

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  • blue-light

    I can't add anymore to what has been said. It is very normal and you will be fine. As Koda said just love who you want. It's not about lifestyles or orientations Hey it's normal, so be happy and contented with who you are and who you love.

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  • SerialSinner

    You don't really have to label yourself, it's easier that way.

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  • shuggy-chan

    Might i suggest a loving kitty or puppy?

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    • jasonkirk

      you re very kind

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