Is it normal i am intimidating and get intimidated?

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Supposedly i look intimidating according to one of my aquaintances. It just seems like someone will look at me and smile and walk away. Im just like um what did i do? Some dont want to talk to me and i feel because im a loser or what.Then i asked her if i look mean or something, and quickly responded YES. I was shocked by her immediate response and my friend also said i look intimidating when "you walk down the hallway it just looks like you can do better than them" as my friend said im good looking blah blah. However, if that is so, what people dont know is i get easily intimidated which im trying to build on my self confidence for. Im vulnerable and easily my personality changes depending who im with, talking to, etc. Can this be possible? I dont know about the intimidatING part, but i sure know about the intimidatED part.

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  • segers72
    10 years ago

    It takes practice not to come accross as self conscious, try to be oneself and not put on any aires pro or con. I am still working on it and am older.

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  • DavidS.
    11 years ago

    the irony of social anxiety....because you feel this anxiety, you put on masks and walls....this makes you look mean and non caring and evokes this reponse in others

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  • Slave2Satan
    12 years ago

    Are you a skin head with a swasticka tattoed on your forehead?

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  • Caps90
    13 years ago

    I agree with the comment above!

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  • paradoxinsoxs
    13 years ago

    I'm in your boat friend, just use it to your advantage- for good not evil.

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