Is it normal i am hurting because my ex has found a new girlfriend?

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My ex and I were together for 13 years. We broke up two years ago. I have been with my current boyfriend for a year, and I just found out that my ex has had a girlfriend for the past 3 months. I am hurting and very upset.

Our breakup was very ugly. And the lawyers are still involved, over the property.

I designed the house we own together, I purchased all the furniture, and decorated the whole place. When I left, I didn't take anything with me. I now regret it. I feel sick thinking that his new girlfriend is enjoying all my hard work. Have I gone insane, or is what I am feeling normal? How long before I get over this?

Advice would be greatly appreciated

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  • klebo
    8 years ago

    If the new girlfriend is serious with him chances are she will want new stuff and change what you've done,she will want it to feel like hers and to eo thay she will want to change things,sorry for such a loss, it's hard,you have someone new to build a life with now

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  • HiAGAIN10
    8 years ago

    If you like your new boyfriend you'd be over him.

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  • LittleGirlBrutallySodomized
    8 years ago

    Its going to take time because your brain has to "unwire" after 13. It will take time that's all.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I'm a firm in believer in getting one's stuff when a relationship ends!

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  • Steve2.0
    8 years ago

    Arm yourself. March towards the house. And get a life.

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    Go and get your fucking stuff back or break it....thats what i would do.

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