Is it normal i am frustrated i can't break it off?

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I have been with my girlfriend about 4 months. I was thinking seriously of breaking it off with her but then her sister became terminally ill. Now I feel I have to be with her, even though I am miserable. Is this normal, or am I a horrible person?

Should I break it off (vote yes it is normal).

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Based on 35 votes (26 yes)
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  • Kaory182
    11 years ago

    Find happiness and don't look
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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    I agree with the above three^^^

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    you can still break up with her. you're not obliged to be her partner just because her sister is dying.

    if anything it's cruel to string her along.

    What you need to do, however, is break up nicely. Don't beat her up over it, and let her know that you'll still be there for her in her time of need.

    and of course mean it too.

    I'd also recommend, don't flaunt any new relationships at her... you can start looking again, but don't rub her nose in it...

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    So you'll wait when her sister die and then you'll break up. I sincerely think that one should not stay in a relationship out of pity. But if you think that you are helping her then you are old enough to think for yourself

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