Is it normal: i am extremly jealous angered my boyfriend has had sex?

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My boyfriend dated this chick .( straight up slut) for like 6 months , yeah doesnt seem like long but they were engaged (ridiculous) yes. and i get the idea sometimes he missess her. they had sex alot. and we've been dating 7 months and he has never even been around me down there. should i be offended?

i mean i know he wants to respect me in all but it still eats me alive. WTH. am i also werid for thinking way to much into this?

please comment,

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  • BlueBarracuda
    12 years ago

    Oh I get the same way. I guess in my mind, I like to think I'm the only girl my boyfriend has ever slept with, but he has slept with quite a few girls before me back when he was part of the raver scene, and even though that's the past, just thinking about it enrages me to no end. I know he's with me now, and it has been 2 years, but still, I could vomit from anger when I even think about the other girls he's been with.

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  • FaeryGirl89
    12 years ago

    From girl to girl you are over analyzing this thing. Just try to remember that your boyfriend is with you not her. So that means you got something she dont. Don't be offended. Guys wanting to have sex with you doenst = Guys thinking your pretty and awesome.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Ok he cheated on you a month after going out with you and all you are looking at is he done more with her? Are you not angry he cheated on you?

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  • Funone1
    12 years ago

    Ummmmm.... Ya.... I don't suggest just offering "hey babe jump my bones". If you want to have sex with him then let him know, feel him up and encourage him to return the favor. He had sex with his EX get over it.

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    I don't think it's normal to be jealous or angry that your boyfriend has had sex.

    Sex is just one part of a relationship, or in your case, no part of the relationship.

    I'd actually be surprised if he didn't think about having sex with her from time to time.

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  • lollypoop
    12 years ago

    The ex sounds like a nice girl, not a slut. At least she was engaged.

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