Is it normal i am bewildered by this? low-cut tops on girls...
Okay, so I play guitar downtown and meet lots of girls. i'll chat some of them up for a few minutes, and i do alright with keeping eye contact, but eventually you have to look somewhere else or they get mega-creeped out. or maybe it's just in my head and i don't like to maintain constant eye contact with strangers. either way, i'll look at the ground or at my feet and then they'll give me this weird look and pull their low-cut shirt up to their neck awkwardly. it's like the pinback song "concrete seconds". one thing that confuses me is why women wear low-cut shirts if they are going to be all self-conscious and treat people like perverts. i know some people say that's all they can find in the stores or it looks cute, but lots of modest girls wear undershirts or tank-tops underneath. when i leave my tits out i kind of expect people to look and am proud of it. i actually prefer modest girls and am not really interested in the bar hopping girls that wear too much make-up, and it doesn't really matter what they think, it just makes me feel like half the people in the world think i'm being a perv even if i'm not, and makes things awkward when all i really wanted was to talk to them. so where are you supposed to look, maybe the top of their head, or just turn you back to them when you are talking? also, it's totally accepted for girls to blatantly comment on a man's chest or stomach, but not so much when a guy does it to a girl, unless she thinks he's really hot or she's just some crazy slut who's dad didn't love her enough. I know it's long and i have too many questions, but i've been confused on this for a while. please help. i would like male and female perspectives. i know i generalized a lot but i was just trying to keep things fun. holla.