Is it normal i am attracted to younger men?

I am 29 year old woman but I feel comfortable with younger men. Sometimes as young as 19 (I won't go less than that. Since I don't like kids). I think they also find me a cool person to hang out with. Some of them even tried to ask me out.

I was sexually harassed when I was young by men who were lot older than me. Does it have to do with anything?

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  • daveyjones05

    I'm just over 30 now but spent 9 years of my 20's with two girls (separately), both older. 20 and with a girl of 26, then when I was 23 with a girl who was 29. We lasted 6 years, so she was 35 by that point. And it was great; I looked up to them, they liked my enthusiasm, the fact I acted like a gentleman and that I was just plain attracted to them. Even in my teens, I dated older girls. It's perfectly okay to do so.

    I've no idea if you feel like that because of your past or you just prefer younger guys but once you figure it out, you'll know if it's just a phase or if you want to meet a younger guy for keeps

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  • Cheese123

    It might. Most guys love a MILF, though. Good for you!

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  • bitushcoosh

    dgaf. im 23 seeking a gal like yourself. go for it. get that young throb on

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  • Bumholelover

    im 25yr old male if u wanna get naughty

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  • Dagan

    Don't take advice from a website of plumbers. Get professional help!

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  • You don't say much about what it is that you enjoy or feel comfortable about these younger guys. And they aren't that much younger. So what is it specifically about what these guys (that you classify into age groups) actually do that make you feel comfortable/uncomfortable? That will tell you a lot more than sweeping generalizations based on age.

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  • candy8

    You should talk to a therapist about the sexual hurrasing, but it's normal I know someone who is forty years old and is married to a thirty year old woman.

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  • Judas_misunderstood

    Samantha from Sex in the City. Yes, what a wonderful role model.

    Younger men are non-threatening and too immature to want anything sophisticated from you. They think you're cool because you have a car and presumably don't live with your parents. You're probably old enough not to have stupid hangups about sex, too.

    Older men might have some lingering problems for you but that doesn't explain a lack of comfort with men your own age.

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  • IDK my BFF Jill?

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  • BeautifulDisaster1019

    i have the opposite problem..im about 17 and i like guys up to the age of 35. this is normal because alot young guys like older woman.

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  • ven067

    You should maybe talk with a psychologist about that whole harassing thing when you were younger because there may be a correlation but anyways, I don't see anything abnormal about this. As long as you're not abusing a position of authority over them and forcing them to talk to you or like you or something.

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  • lewlew80

    Wow, what can a 19 yo do for u besides make u a bowl of cereal, r u kidding me?

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    • womanwhowenttomars

      I guess it depends on the woman. Not every woman needs a man to make her/give her something materialistic (think Samantha from sex in the city). Many independent women prefer younger men that's why probably.

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