Is it normal i am 18 years old and i've never had a boyfriend?

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I am 18 years old and I'm turning 19 soon. I've never had a boyfriend and I've never been kissed. I've been asked out a few times by some guys, but I feel they were like only losers who see "hope" and "chance" with me because they couldn't get better. I feel incredibly alone, ugly and loser. I am not ugly, but since I've never had a boyfriend, I am losing all my confidence by now. Sometimes I used to think because I am really short and petite and guys don't find it attractive at all. I am only 4ft11... I have seen less attractive girls than me having their sixth boyfriend while I've never get one. And it is very hard for me to make new friends, especially friend with guys because I have a boring personality.
Is it normal?

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  • Dricey
    13 years ago

    Of course that's normal. I mean if you really Want a relationship (for whatever reason) but haven't been able to find one, then it sucks, but it happens to the best of us.

    Also, relationships aren't for everyone, and I think the stereotype that you Have to date someone or you Have to have had sex by now or you're inadequate is outdated and pathetic :P

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  • kodiakbear450
    13 years ago

    I am a 20 year old guy and I have never been in a relationship, let alone kissed a girl, yes it is normal.

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  • Sweetz
    13 years ago

    Its normal, it will eventually happen:)

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  • Yorker2005
    13 years ago

    Its better to wait patiently for your first than be a slutty whore....

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    ^i hope the above post was sarcasm.
    it's ok, i'm 19 and haven't had a serious bf. the right guy will come eventually. don't worry.

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  • raqii_11
    12 years ago

    I'm 18 and in the 'forever alone' club. I don't think I'll ever find someone who will want me. Oh well. Wanna wallow in your misery with others just like you, go to a chan site.

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  • cheerqueen101
    12 years ago

    That's perfectly normal! In fact, it can be a good thing. You never know when the right person will come along. Don't be envious of the girls who have had 6 relationships, because each of those relationships is a loss and its hard to deal with. Especially while you're young. Relationships can be wonderful, but they also add a lot of stress to your life. There is nothing wrong with waiting. Your time will come, and at that point you will have already seen everything your friends have gone through and will probably have a better outlook on relationships than they had. Don't settle, you deserve the best :)

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  • xXAnnaXx
    13 years ago

    Im 20 and Ive had around 5 partners-ish

    Never kissed or had sex, just companionship. Dont rush to much, but its good to keep an open mind. :)

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  • HSVWHO
    13 years ago

    Lol it was

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    You reject every guy and complain about being lonely?

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  • HSVWHO
    13 years ago

    OMG YOU ARE REALLY OLD! NO
    ONE IS EVER GOING TO WANT YOU NOW!
    Quick Jump on the next guy that walks past u.

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