Is it normal i am 19 hes 30

Yeah, it doesn't sound too bad but I'd be wary of a guy that lies about his age like that. Who knows what else he is willing to lie about...

I think he did want to date me. I'm talking to other guys now anyways. And doesn't seem like anything is going to come out of it. I have seen him last month and he did sort of cheat on his girlfriend with me. If there was no such thing as mobile phones then life would be much different.
Thanks for your comments guys!! :)

"Is age really a big deal?" It his to him. 19 yo hottie? Oh yeah, he's digging it. And he's gonna tell you whatever you wanna hear to keep that young ass around. Young at heart, doesn't relate to the fuddies his age, was going to tell but needed you get to know the real him first, ..... whatever it takes to get in and stay in those pants, Sister.

Geez, I guess we were all that naive back when....must have been.

It's the past moving on. I can't change anything wasn't ready for anything then anyways.

"hanged out"

thats not good you should have given him a chance at least.

that was along time ago lol I even forgot about this website. I'm 22 now we are friends lives far away. I'm still single Eh.

Typically PEOPLE that young are shallow. Sorry.

He probably thinks like most guys, that a 20 something turns her ears off as soon as she hears "THIRT-". Typically, girls that young are pretty damn shallow.

He is dumped !!

Thanks for all your comments guys. I am seeing him again and trying to end it. Wish there was some nice young guys out there. I guess there is but I dont know where to look.

That is a big age difference (you probably don't think it is now, but you will see the gap when you are in your mid 20s and looking back). He also obviously thinks it is inappropriate since he lied to you about it. I believe that if one of the first few things that someone says to you upon meeting them is a lie, then that person is probably not worth your time.

It's not a huge lie. We men feel insecure about our age just like women feel insecure about their weight. 30/19 is very normal but because so many people say it isn't makes us feel that insecurity.

What's the question here? Whether it's normal or whether it's a big deal?

ummm he lied to u about his age. don't be with someone like that, i would get out of that relationship. AGE IS NOT A BIG DEAL IF ITS 19 and 30, BUT...he lied to u

Something is wrong with a 30 year old man if he wants to be with a 19 year old. I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you & you are charming but something is wrong with him. This will be something you realize in a few years when you are older & in hindsight.

You're nine-ten years younger, so what? My mother's boyfriend is about ten years younger than her, and they seem happy.

He did lie to you, which is bad. You shouldn't be considered a bad person if you leave him due to his age, because you might of not even communicated with him further if he mentioned he was 30.

Age is just a number