Is it normal i always want the opposite gender of who i'm dating?

First of all, I'm pansexual - I am attracted people of all genders, including transgender, intersex, non-gender, etc. But, whenever I'm in a monogamous relationship with a female, I fantasize about sex with males and vice-versa. Sometimes, it even gets to the point that I'm afraid I may cheat on my SO. So, is it normal to always want what I don't have?

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Based on 34 votes (20 yes)
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  • (s)aint

    It sounds like you should be in a relationship with more than one person. As long as everyone´s consenting it´s fine.

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  • rayb12

    Yeah I would look for the positives in your partner there is always more than meets the eye, love them for them and be there for them entirely

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  • fluffy1uv

    Maybe you need to find the right person. A relationship that's not based on sex

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  • Tealights

    You're polyamorous.

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