Is it normal i always see a specific name

It's a bit of a story but whatever. Basically a couple years ago I met this guy and I never thought much would come of it. Time passed and I fell madly in love with him and I wanted to marry him and have a huge planned life with him (he wanted the same).

Part of the planned life was to have kids. Now, I'm a person honestly who doesn't want or like kids but with him I wanted it badly. Anyway, he and I wanted to have twins hopefully, a boy and a girl. The names we picked out were Aurora and Damien.

He and I sadly did not work out. During and after the relationship the name Aurora always popped up. I never intentionally looked for it, it just always randomly came up and it still does.

I'm not sure what it means. Does it mean that maybe I am supposed to one day have a child by that name or is it just coincidence?

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Comments ( 13 )
  • Audacia

    Some people believe in Fate and these little signs may be guiding you in a certain direction. Others would say it's a co-incidence. Really you can't believe anyones opinion on this. It's something you should figure out yourself

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  • OswaldCobblepot

    Confirmation bias.

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  • dirtybirdy

    A flock of seagulls, I ran. They say it.

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy

    coincidence? imo I'd say yes because in most cases for me its like when I learn a new word I start to see it EVERYWHERE, well at least thats me but I think its okay if you just go with it

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    • ToBeDifferent

      No it's not like that, idk it's been happening for like the past 3 years

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals

        You didn't give it a second thought before that.

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        • ToBeDifferent

          Because I just realized how long it's been happening

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  • dinz

    Maybe it is because the name "Aurora" is also the term for those Natural light shows you see in the Northern skies during weather. Maybe you look at the sky and think of them.

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  • Hottigene

    Maybe your bothered that you never married him and it makes you think of this more do you still Love Him maybe your not Happy with your Life now Sweety I Hope you find Happiness.

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    • ToBeDifferent

      I miss him like hell but I can't ever go back with him..he's not the guy I fell in love with anymore and I went into dark places while we were together whenever we fought..like legit I last night had a dream I gave birth to a baby girl. This whole baby girl and Aurora stuff didn't happen until he came along and it's been about 4 years of this

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      • Hottigene

        Do you think if you ever do have a girl you would still name her Aurora by the way how did you pick that name it is a pretty name.

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  • ToBeDifferent

    And I'm in Florida so seeing that is never ever gonna happen unless I visit Alaska again

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  • ToBeDifferent

    No like it randomly pops up as someone's name or looking through random pages or internet sites or actually the aurora boreallis but it's barely ever the natural phenomenon.

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