Is it normal i always get ignored left out?

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today at the nail shop everyone got asked for a cup of tea or given one (even if they didn't ask except for me) they were mostly older ladies 40s i'm in my 20s and i wondered why they didnt bother to ask me? this has happened to me on more than one occasion where i'm always the one who they miss out gets missed out all the time and just starting to make me feel bad as sometimes i just feel invisible..

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  • MydogRocks
    5 years ago

    That happens alot to me as well.not at a nail shop tho. Jus in general it makes me mad that im always forgotten. First off, im a big mouth 100 lbs female. Ive been told "i stick out in a crowd kuz im so pretty" I've also been told that "I bring light to the darkness" so how could one forget to ask me if I wanted to go or whatever? " oh I forgot you were here!" whatever the case may be. Another person had commented forget that tea go to Starbucks. It's not about the tea it's about the principle of the fact. I know my feelings get hurt and when my feelings get hurt I get mad. So I completely one-hundred-percent feel you on that. It wasn't about the damn tea. It was about just being asked or noticed that you were there and I get that. And it hurts and I'm sorry that happened to you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Its just tea, you could go to starbucks abd treat yo’self. While there you could chat it up with baristas, you’d be suprised how much better you’ll feel after being the one to start the conversation

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  • Golias
    5 years ago

    Its a psychological fact that the human brain gives more importance to the bad things that happen around you. I dont remember who said this, but "you need to have 5 good experiences to overcome a bad one".

    Dont put too much thought in that. Either you've been unlucky and people around you are being stupid or you're just overreacting. Sometimes people dont mean to hurt you. Maybe its just unluckyness.

    You have people who dont ignore you, I'm sure of that. Dont worry about small things ;)

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  • ihavewindexpoisoning
    5 years ago

    Perhaps the other patrons tip better than you or are regulars, or both.

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  • fakeaccount3
    5 years ago

    damn what the hell, that's cute af, your first line of your story, sounds like a good time anyway, show them youre a good girl and they come around cuz they're old fashioned you know, old people love me cuz im "cute", maybe you're hot or more

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  • Bambooshabba
    5 years ago

    Maybe the older people resembled a thirsty dry raisin , whilst you gave of the essence of a juicy grape.

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