Is it normal i’m helping raise a kid who isn’t mine

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I’ve been the fuck buddy to this girl for a while now and she has a 6 year old son. I’ve been trying to get more serious with her, and decided to start acting like a dad for her son to try to get her to take me on seriously. I take this kid to appointments, we go see movies together, I buy him toys and clothes, absolute buds now.
Now she wants to go and try to date this other dude who doesn’t even make as much money as me, doesn’t care for her kid, and she said he is lazy in bed so she comes back to me for sex after dates with him. Wtf???

She likes him cause “he’s mature”, I’m 26, she’s 31, he’s like 40 or something.
Now she says she wants to stop sleeping with me because she wants to “get serious” with this guy, but still wants me to act like a father to her son.
I love this kid, adore the little guy, but now I feel like I’m getting cucked when she’s dropping him off at my condo to go on a date with this bum. And I’m not even the real dad!

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  • Primus
    4 years ago | pl

    She sees you as her sons meal ticket and free babysitting service. I say leave.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    Get right away from her

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  • GaelicPotato
    4 years ago

    You're basically a glorified babysitter at this point.

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    • JellyBeanBandit
      4 years ago

      Babysitters get paid.

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      • GaelicPotato
        4 years ago

        So more like a slave?

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        4 years ago

        Used to get laid.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    4 years ago

    You're being used. She has ZERO interest in you. She sees you as nothing but a puppet that gives her money and gets her kid out of her way. Stop talking to her, block her number, block her on social media, and just cut all contact with her.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      And the kid? I’ve really worked a relationship with him at this point, and I definitely don’t trust this new guy.

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      • Mrown
        4 years ago

        tell her how you feel and see her reaction, also tell her how you feel about the other guy. it probably won't work but at least you could say you tried

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        4 years ago

        Well you can either keep being used or cut your losses and leave. The second one is hard, but it's probably better than being used.

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      • GaelicPotato
        4 years ago

        Kidnap the kid.

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        • DeathXN
          4 years ago

          Lmao

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          • GaelicPotato
            4 years ago

            ?

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    4 years ago

    She's really disrespecting you doing this. You should at the very least refuse to look after her son as much. I understand you like him and might want to take him to the movies now and then, but she's really taking the piss.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I know it. Partly feel like I can just wait it out and get her again in the end, just feel like I’ve put so much into the relationship already to just throw it out.
      “Taking the piss”? What does that mean

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      • JellyBeanBandit
        4 years ago

        Yeah I see, it's a rough situation. One thing is though she might not respect you if you allow yourself to be taken advantage of by her, and then even if she ends it with this guy she could just do the same with some new guy again later. Taking the piss means she's gone too far.

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