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My sister calls me bad names, bosses me around and is all around verbally abrasive. Sometimes she even uses hate speech about the fact I'm an openly gay woman. She can even do it in front of my mom and my mom will stick up for her if I try to defend myself. Sometimes she's even rude to our mom and mom still doesn't say anything to her. Is all of this normal?
It's not normal. Perhaps you should work on distancing yourself from her? Just because you share the same blood, it doesn't mean you have to stick with her.
I don't think it's normal, but it is rather common. My mom enables my sister's bitchy, bad behavior and has been doing so for years. Honestly, my mom's not doing her any favors, because my sister is a spoiled, stuck up, unemployed, lonely, little person. My sister was dumped by her fiancé approximately 9 years ago, and she dated anyone except for this one nasty perve, she also doesn't have any close friends except for like a few old ones from college and when she was in modeling. She's always feeling sorry for herself, because she's alone, and just blames everyone else for all her problems, but the one proverbial stone that remains unturned is her personality. She absolutely refuses to get therapy, work on herself or admit that she's not perfect. My mom's enabling her has done nothing but hurt her.
I guess the point I'm trying to make is that a person's bad behavior will catch up with him or her. In the meantime I hope you can get away from or at least distance yourself from your sister. Take care of and work on yourself then continue to detach from your sister. Karma will handle the rest.
Your mom is hiding a secret between your sister and her. She is afraid if she gets on your sisters bad side she will blab. Pay them no attention. They are jealous of you everytime they have man problems. Get a job and take care of yourself and as your sister keeps getting pregnate let her find her own help...dont forget she thinks you are a bad person so she doesnt need bad people around her brats. For all u know she may blame u for something hard to handle. So you do you sweetheart. I have been there also
Very simple solution: Since you are openly gay you must have some dyke friends who are built like pro football players, right? Tell them of your problem with your sister and I'm sure they will be more than happy to kick her ass for you. Problem solved. Your welcome.