Is it normal how i feel about him and should i stop?

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I always thought I was a good girlfried i care about everything he does and I think about him a lot I never had been in love before I started dating him.. I think I obsess over him to much we have been dating for a long time now and he use to be crazy obsessed with me and it made me so happy he cared about who I hung out with and you know EVERYTHING and if I did something that made him unhappy I stopped just so he would be happy! But now I am like that not like tell him what to do just I care about everything he is doing I may be insane I am just scared of losing him I feel like his life is mine I love him more than anything. He use to be that I did that he use to cry and tell me how much he cared but now he hates that I do that and doesn't care as much I mean I know we aren't going to break up because it seems impossible for us but now I feel like he is treating me in a not nice way just because he knows I won't do anything about it.. Should I just give up on him.

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Based on 33 votes (12 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Pretty soon he will come along and say "Its not you, its me"

    But it isnt him. Its you. All you.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    Fuck me sideways and call me Sally your blatant lack of punctuation and paragraph breaks not to mention your frequent use of run-on sentences jumbling every fucking word and concept together made it damned near impossible for me to read this but I went the distance and did it anyway.

    ^Honestly, how the hell do people type like this?
    Anywho, it sounds like he is done putting up with your bullshit. You're probably being extremely histrionic with him and it sounds like your making fucking mountains out of molehills and now that he sees that he is just done. You sound like you're too clingy and co-dependent and any rational person would just stop giving a shit once they realize that hey, it's not me fucking up, it's more you being emotionally unstable.

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    • Unimportant
      12 years ago

      *fucks you sideways*
      How did you like it, Sally?

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        12 years ago

        :D

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    • RinTin
      12 years ago

      I'm hoping English is her 3rd language b/c I don't see why she would type/talk that way.

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  • pufferton
    12 years ago

    Sooo I did not understand any of that. o.O It was like one big run on sentence. I'd try to help but..

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Do you kids not realise that relationships burn out?!

    Usually 3-4 years is the max before they start treating you like shit to try to give you the hint to go away!!

    Here's my advice as one who's very happy....

    The day they stop making you laugh, dump their sorry @sses and don't look back! Life is too short to spend it with someone who makes you miserable.

    Now grow up the whole bloody lot of you!!!

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  • RinTin
    12 years ago

    I'm sorry...I read it but I couldn't follow. Everything was jumbled together. I have a short attention span and little patience. XD

    but umm it sounds like you are sacrificing yourself for him. Who are you? Don't lose yourself.

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  • She_Shakur
    12 years ago

    Love is a rebellious bird
    that nobody can tame,
    and you call him quite in vain
    if it suits him not to come.
    Nothing helps, neither threat nor prayer.
    One man talks well, the other's mum;
    it's the other one that I prefer.
    He's silent but I like his looks.
    The bird you thought you had caught
    beat its wings and flew away ...
    love stays away, you wait and wait;
    when least expected, there it is!

    All around you, swift, so swift,
    it comes, it goes, and then returns ...
    *you think you hold it fast*, *it flees*
    you think you're free, it holds you fast.

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  • kit291
    12 years ago

    my bf is so clingy to me and i am to him but he makes one rule for me and another for himself. it hurts me and i don't know what to do either. the only thing i can say is follow your heart it may sound corney but it's the best advice i've got. lifes never easy. you could play him at his own games and not let him walk all over you. if my bf snaps i snap back. if he gets grumpy because i talk to a guy i get grumpy at him when he talks to a girl.

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    • Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat
      12 years ago

      That relationship you describe will be ending very, very soon.

      You sound like you are 16 yrs old.

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      • kit291
        12 years ago

        no i'm 18 and it really isn' we're to close. oh and i love him fa o much plus he loves me and we tell eachother tat everyday.

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        • Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat
          12 years ago

          Yes but is he teaching you how to spell correctly? Because if he is he is not doing a very good job at all.

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          • kit291
            12 years ago

            yeah i'm dyslexic so he's having a little trouble with teaching me.

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    • lolol555
      12 years ago

      Infatuations, infatuations.

      It'll end, I promise you.

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      • kit291
        12 years ago

        oh it wont we've been like this for nearly nine months now.

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        • lolol555
          12 years ago

          That's unhealthy.

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          • kit291
            12 years ago

            how is it unhealthy? i don't see him on weekends. it's not like i'm with him 24/7 and we can't not see eachother or i might as well be single. i'm at college all week anyway so that give us even more time a part.

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            • lolol555
              12 years ago

              Please, as the years go by all this emotional tension and jealousy leaves.

              Have you ever seen a relationship like yours last? Looks at your parents and every damn couple around you who have been together for more than 10 years, I know for a fact all this clingyness is gone because:
              A. Your youthful looks are gone so no one will be hitting on either of you.
              B. You know each-other too damn well to be all that clingy.

              It won't last. If you have to cope with your boyfriend then he his causing extra strain and stress because you have to be all this clingy, you will eventually toss it off to move on with your life as you mature.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You sound extremely clingy to me. Most normal guys would have a hard time dating someone like this.

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