Is it normal how i feel

Hi everybody. I have a long distance relationship since 2007 and it works really good. My gf sometimes hangs out or goes for a walk with a male friend.It never bothered me before but staring this year it became unbearable. I m sure they've never done anything and i really trust her so the problem is just in my head. I just can't stop hating him for being with her, so near. i feel like burning inside and i'd really want if not to kill him at least kick his ass really badly. is that normal?
sorry for my bad english ;P

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Based on 42 votes (35 yes)
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  • It's normal,especially if you have a lot invested in the relationship.

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  • Proudfear

    try talking to her more or maybe becoming friends with him

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  • It's natural to feel that way. He gets to spend time that you wish you were spending with her. Basically, you have no control over what happens when you aren't around - you only have your trust in your girlfriend to get you by.

    Only time will tell if your relationship can stand the test of a lot of distance between the two of you. The longer you are apart, the easier it is for you to drift apart.

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