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I become extremely aroused by being spanked by my husband (and he knows this), but he hasn't spanked me in weeks. We still have sex and I comply with the initiation (he often wants me to initiate sex too) but he won't dominate me like he knows I like. Sometimes he even says he's going to spank me but he doesn't he just whips his dick out or looks at me like he wants me to start the sex.. Wtf?
It sounds like he's either lost interest in you, or he's punishing you, consciously or unconsciously. (Which would be very ironic, since he's punishing you by NOT spanking you.)
Alternatively, maybe he's fed up with dominating you. It sounds like he gets off, so why should he take the time and effort to dominate you?
I suggest you look him in the eye, and say emphatically, "WTF, dude?"
You're not satisfied with your sex life at the moment but, from the little you say, it seems he's happy with how things are. You could get into all sorts of stupid, relationship-destroying games and start refusing to have sex with him at all, but it would be better if you can have an honest discussion with him about what's going on. Best to pick a time when you're both relaxed, and a setting that you two don't associate with sex.
I would say if he won't give you what you was t go find a man who will. I love to be spanked by a woman as well as spank a woman. I've loved being spanked since I was 8 years old. I realized this after my mother finished spanking me,I had a massive boner,and was super Horny. I walked out of her and dads room,went into the spare bathroom,pulled my pants down,sat on the toilet and Jacked off,man did I cumm hard that day
i would love to spank you . and tie you hands over your head so you can't resist the pleasure i give you next. of course id blindfold you as well. and i you might hear another person in the room watching me pound away at you.