Is it normal he's like this??

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I got married last month and we're so in love. He's so good to me and I can't imagine I'll find a better guy.
The thing is I'm still getting to know him and wht kind of a person he is..I noticed he's like a big kid, he likes to hang around with his friends a lot and stay very late while I'm waiting for him and that really pisses me off. I got angry one day for him being so late but he just said sorry baby I said nothing and I went to bed but I couldn't stay mad becoz I really do love him.. So the next day it's like nothing happened..
is it normal for a guy to do this for his new wife??I dunno if it's me but I really do my best to make him happy...

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  • aduusw
    12 years ago

    Why did u get married if you dint even know him?

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  • Zoroaster
    12 years ago

    I don't think you should have to train him or lay out "rules." If you try to put your foot down and put restrictions on him this early in the marriage it doesn't bode well. Try talking to him in earnest about it and how it makes you feel. If he really loves you he'll limit the time he spends with his friends so he can be with you. Anyway good luck!

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  • maya617
    12 years ago

    Unfortunately guys are like that. U gotta train him. Lay out the ground rules. Most men are lile kids.

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  • thegift
    12 years ago

    As a woman you have no right to question or tell him what to do.

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    • Steve2.0
      8 years ago

      Enjoying the 1850s? How are your slaves doing?

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago

    It funny how people think being married will change someone. He didn't change when you first started dating, so why expect it now?

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    Most guys are kidlike to a very old age, definitely lay down some rules (he's a grown man, he can take them), and explain why you're doing it.

    And of course she didn't know him, NO ONE knows everything about their partner, we learn bad and good things about their thoughts, opinions and habits everyday. People change all the time, you can never really know everything of them.

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  • boogabear
    12 years ago

    I assume he's still very young. Men have a tendency to mature more slowly then women. Once you have children....I'm sure his priority's will change

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  • pmon
    12 years ago

    That was a stupid move to marry someone while they still don't know each other, first is like you guys meet then when you guys are boyfriend girlfriend for like a year move with each other then if the relationship is strong and you guys have like 2 years together then you guys should marry each other. Well that's what I think.

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  • rayst
    12 years ago

    I would be the type who wants to spend all his time with his new wife, but many guys dont feel that need, they are just more independant.

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    No not normal

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    That not very nice maya but ya we forget an forgive fast

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  • SoccerStud88
    12 years ago

    hes just out hookin up with other chicks dont worry...haha jk

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