Is it normal he never takes the initiative to have sex anymore?

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I know my boyfriend watches porn a lot (like once or twice a day), but I never saw it as a big deal. Until now... It doesn't feel like he's attracted to me anymore. We almost never have sex anymore and when we do, I'm the one who takes the initiative. We're only 10 months together and we already have this problem! And mostly when I take the initiative, he refuses or gets irritated, it makes me feel so ridiculous, unattractive, worries and it's really embarrassing! Is this normal? And can this be because of his 'porn addiction'.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    Communication. Communication. Communication.

    it's easy to just blame the porn, but if you want a fulfilling relationship you need to learn how to communicate with your partner.

    and I don't mean just beating him up over masturbating... but really talk to him - and listen to what he has to say too.

    I know many girls think "if he's jerking off he doesn't want me" but usually it really has nothing to do with them at all.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Porn addition can be part of it, get help for both of you soon!

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