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so my boyfriend never does anything to me...been together for four months now we've spent like five nights together and nothing completely happens..no kissing,no sex nothing
is that normal in a commitment?
and wat should i do coz am suffering...i need this affection and i love him so much...
I don't think he knows he's your boyfriend. If he knows, there's nothing wrong with the female initating sexual contact. Touch him, kiss him, make the first move. Guide his hands if he has no clue what to do.
A number of things could be going on here, obviously. It would be helpful to know how old you are. He might be too insecure to initiate anything. It is possible that he's asexual, but I don't think it's right to jump to conclusions about other people's orientations. He mightn't be attracted to you sexually, and that could be a reflection of his orientation or otherwise.
I think that you should initiate a sexual act, anyhow. There's no reason that you should hold back if you don't expect him to. If he has any intention of being sexual with you, he'll probably react favourably.
Good luck.
try to start with some thing with him try to lick his ass
then cook , finger try to make him hot
Sex? Likely. I'm sure he's either scared or has no idea what sex is. Kissing? I'm not sure. Maybe he's afraid that he's gonna screw up. Anyway, I wish good luck to you.
I hit the wrong button, 'Normal,' but it does not seem normal to me. I doubt he's gay. He's probably horny and too insecure to do anything.
You may have to lead.
You've only been together four months and you are worried about having sex with him? I didn't have sex with my ex till we had been together 5 1/2 months. Maybe he likes to take it slow. You should talk to him about it instead of posting it on the internet though. Other wise make the first move, I had to do that with my ex. If you don't want to make the first move then maybe you need to rethink y'all's relationship? It sounds like to me that all YOU want is sex, there is more to a relationship that sex. I learned that the hard way. My ex left me cause all I ever wanted was sex. If all you want is sex then get a fuckbuddy. I did that and it's the best thing I have ever done, just be careful to not get attached to the guy. GOOD LUCK!
No especially since its been 4 months..straddle him and start kissing him see r where it leads...if it goes nowhere then break it off girl, it won't get any better!