Is it normal he makes me invisible?

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a long time (years ) I'm 8 months pregnant with his child but he already has a child with his ex girlfriend , she is 8. My boyfriend has her every weekend, but if we spend time together its like I'm not there, I understand she has needs but I feel like he's gonna put our child second and me last when it comes to her. Is it normal for him to make me feel this invisible because of her ?

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Based on 27 votes (11 yes)
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  • Shelbs
    10 years ago

    Well, either he's doing something to make you feel invisible or your insecurities are making you feel invisible.

    I feel that the best relationships are the ones in which the couple is first and the children are second. You might want to discuss your needs with him if you haven't already.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    Things are gonna bother you more being pregnant and affected by all those hormones... But I do think nesting goes deeper than cleaning the corners of walls with q-tips, so maybe you should deal with this while your body is telling you to.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Have you always had this problem with him or has it been this way only since you've been pregnant?

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    • littlemissidgaf
      10 years ago

      Since I've been pregnant

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