Is it normal he is married and asked this?

An old coworker I use to work with that is married hit me up on facebook and asked if we could meet for coffee.Is this normal? He did jokingly flirt with me once but I thought it was him just being funny.What do you think?My boyfriend thinks it is weird and my married girl friend said the same thing.

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36% Normal
Based on 75 votes (27 yes)
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  • Men

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    • black_sheep123

      were not all the same...

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Ask him if he minds if u are flatulent. If he can put up with your gas he's a keeper right?

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  • Lizz

    That's weird. Ask him why he wants to meet

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  • misunderstood11

    Depends on his age and what his motivations would be for seeing you.

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  • ygrowup

    It is normal for him to ask, and the way you respond will determine what comes next! If you agree to meet, just the two of you then he thinks of you as more than a old friend! If he meets you when you tell him you are bringing along your boyfriend then he wants to talk about old times. You have all the power here to fill his desires or not! Good luck with your choices

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  • Mel

    If he wants a completely plutonic relationship, then suggest dinner with him/wife & you/bf. Thats IF you want to keep in touch with him, if not...just say No. If he says that he wants it to be just you & him or makes excuses why his wife cant go, then I guess you got your answer.

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  • He probably likes you a little bit.

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  • chezycheze

    It sounds kinda weird. I can think of non-weird reasons why he would ask that and also lots of weird reasons why he would ask that. Why don't you just ask why what do you want to meet about? Or you could ask if its ok for your boyfriend to come, lol.

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    • chezycheze

      Or you could just say no if you don't want to.

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