Is it normal he drinks in ex-girlfriends pub?

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me and my partner have been together for 6 years we broke up earlier this year for a couple months. Within a fortnight he was with a barmaid in the pub weboth went to regularly. After six weeks he left her for me. I was barred from the pub by his ex.
but he carried on drinkin there. he told me they were civil at best. I believed that as i know how hurt she was. But he drinks there whilst im barred??? and tonight his fb page announced they are friends. Am i playing the fool here? or should i trust him?

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  • Phat
    9 years ago

    RUN!!!

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  • peaches1992
    11 years ago

    he should respect your feelings and not go there! I bet he wouldn't like it if the tables were turned! I'd consider breaking up with him if he doesn't man up!

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  • emilydoll
    11 years ago

    ... I wouldn't allow that...

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  • Sog
    11 years ago

    This is really messed up. I don't understand how you could stay with him while he continues to disrespect you like that.

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  • oldbird
    11 years ago

    i got barred because he left her. I also think he should be fighting my corner but he says he doesnt want to rock the boat?

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    If it's his local and all his mates are there, I understand it. My local has regulars I have history with and I'd resent being told I couldn't go there, especially as I know I'm not going to cheat. Your chap sounds the same as he broke up with someone to be with you.

    Is there any chance of your barring getting lifted if you apologise enough and promise good behaviour? If I was him, I'd be campaigning for you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    There are other pubs!

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