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Okay so Ive had sex with my boyfriend about 4 times and he each time he went soft after about 4 or 5 minuets. He says its because I dont talk dirty enough. But hes inside me isnt that good enough? and its not like im silent i moan and tell him it feels good but thats not enough for him.. what else can i say to make him stay hardd
He's watched too much porn. Every male brain has a porn quota of about 1500 to 2000 hours, after which real sex becomes meaningless. He needs to imagine that he's watching porn when he's in bed with you.
It's a bit disturbing that he's only 20 and he's already used up his quota.
I agree that it sounds like he watched too much porn. That or he may have previously had sex with a girl that was really kinky. Now regular sex isnt as exciting as the crazy stuff they do in porn anymore. When guys take things to the next level going back to standard sex just isnt as intresting anymore.
Haha just like a man has a limit of boob pics he can save in his brain from "How I met your Mother" =P
I wouldn't be so quick to judge. Sounds to me like he may have been emotionally abused by his mother.
You should dump his ass and start dating fat guys that normally cant get laid, I bet they would get hard for you.
He might have performance anxiety. Look it up. It's where he gets too nervous that he won't do good, or whatever. Happens to a lot of younger guys.
next time put on some porn, let him hit it from the back while hes watching it. if he still goes limp, he has erectile dsyfunction, its not you... if he refuses to go get treated for it...then hes making his problem yours! poor girl, i cant even imagine....if you decide to stay, keep a vibrator next to the bed and get off while he watches...he'll realize what hes missing out on and you still get satisfied (win*win)for you!
If he's only 20 years old and he can't keep it up with a naked woman, then IMO he's probably gay. Lot of people don't want to face the fact of their orientation, or hope they're more bi-sexual than all-out gay. Considering how our society treats homosexuals I can't say I blame them either.
Then again, some people are more asexual than others (or so I'm told).
Tell hime to take too of the little blue triangular pills marked 100 and he will do just finr!
Your boyfriend is gay. A twenty year old guy who can't stay up when he's actually in your vagina, well, doesn't like vagina. Get a new boyfriend. In fact, you can come over to my house. I'll make you a nice dinner and fuck you hard in all three of your holes. You sound like a nice girl, and you need someone who will give you what you want.
Hit the gym. Don't be mad. The truth is supposed to hurt, that's how you know it's the truth.
Well, its hard to say. Im not going to lie, ive been having some trouble keeping my hard. My girlfriend is sexy as hell, and she turns me on, but im extremely picky when it comes to the sex. So, its normal for me.
Sounds like you need a penile implant. Nothing to be ashamed about. Its not like you still cant consider yourself a man or anything. I mean needing a penile implant isnt a big deal, you can still walk tall and just explain how you needed a little extra help getting it up.
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Masturbate infront of him! Every guys dream! If that dosnt work then he must have a medical issue witch isn't his fault so don't blame your self or him
i donno know why u all guys r making such an issue out of it.....generally uttering dirty words during sex increases one's urge for it...so if using dirty words solves ur problem then go ahead...but if it fails then u must seriously think abt him....
DO A 69!!! That WILL work!!!! And then let him suck on your tits thats HUGE for guys!!!
Spot on , you've gotta be into someone. It's way possible to hook up with someone but not actually be into their looks or whatever as much as the relationship itself.
I cant stay hard If I have a condom on, Its a shit situation and has led to some dramas. However I am in a committed relationship now and we have unprotected sex, there is no longer a problem.
if you like talking dirty then carry on.
if it bothers you have a talk with him about what you are looking for in bed.
but remember you have to listen to what he wants too.
the idea is to compromise and make up a plan that suits both of you
Maybe he is worried about something or distracted. Maybe being more impulsive would fix it. And I shall presume you have problems with the whole dirty talk situation?
maybe he just has a medical problem and wont tell you so he's blaming you. men can have problem getting hard and thats why there are drugs for that kind of stuff. i know it sounds weird because he's only 20 but it can happen and you should either talk to him or just leave it and learn to say more dirty things in the bed room.