Is it normal having a threesome turned me off?

Do I have to leave or can I just finish off in the corner by myself? I'll be real quiet...

Threesomes can be very emotionally traumatizing and unfortunately until you've tried it it's hard to know how you're going to feel afterward.

It takes very stable, mature people to be able to have a threesome without there being emotional fallout. And if two of the participants are a couple they need to have a strong relationship and good communication or all kinds of things can go wrong.

The worst things I hear at swinger parties are couples that talk about how their relationship is messed up and they're hoping this is going to fix it. If your relationship is messed up adding other people isn't the cure.

ya I felt like there was just to much going on for me to enjoy it

You live and learn, it didn't work for you. Just put it down to experience....