Is it normal have a girlfriend but not be sure about women?

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I've recently been asked out by my late girlfriend. It was an amazing thing to hear (because she is highly attractive) but deep down I don't know exactly how I feel. Its a long distance relationship she lives about 5 hours from me, and on this last weekend she came down. We hugged and it felt right being in her arms and feeling the protection and warmth she gave me, but when it came to the kiss.... I felt nothing. What does this mean? Im Confused because I'm almost certain I like women bit again still slightly unsure and I know I find this girl attractive but why didn't the kiss feel right?

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  • aurora73
    11 years ago

    I'd say it's a long distance relationship! Especially as she's you 'late' girlfriend! ROFL

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  • PalestinianGuy
    11 years ago

    Tell her to brush her teeth next time.

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    • Pandabear16
      11 years ago

      No need to be that harsh... -_-

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  • mystery7
    9 years ago

    Asked out by your 'late' girlfriend? You mean she's dead?

    Anyway, sounds like you are NOT into her. I have one thing that helps me decide if want to be with someone: if I can't imagine wanting to kiss them passionately then they are not the right woman for me.

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  • anotherpuppet
    9 years ago

    That's a good question.

    LDRs are really difficult to manage. Trust me I'm doing just that now...if you feel like its too much and you can't stand the lack of physical contact and emotional comfort that a normal relationship can have then its simply not for you.

    But if you believe she's worth it, that's a whole other can of worms.

    If the kiss didn't feel right perhaps its just an awkward first kiss or maybe there's a lack of something within the relationship.

    You can find someone attractive, but BAM! it hits you that you're much better off as friends than anything else in the world. And that happens, and if you feel like that's happening then that's absolutely normal. But just take into account how you feel for her and go from there.

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  • VioletBlueHearts
    11 years ago

    Maybe it's because you're hurt by her?

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  • joybird
    11 years ago

    Sounds like you're over her although you can still admire her attractive looks.

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