Is it normal (guys help me!)

To guys out there. What is a good way to talk to a guy, to make a move, that you don't see face to face cause school is out and who you don't have their number. I've talked to him on twitter and a couple times when school was in session cause his locker was below me. But I like him a lot. How would you want a girl to talk to you, what would be good to make a move. And what if he doesn't feel the same way? Help me out I need your help. Yall are guys, tell me what y'all would like for a girl to do thanks:)

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  • flutterhigh

    Go on twitter and triangulate his positional coordinates through his IP address. Drive to his house (if you don't have a car, a Segway will do) and just linger there for a while. Take note of his patterns of movement - keep a journal if you must. Then, when he exits his house at an opportune moment, leap out of your car/Segway and start crabwalking towards him screaming the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air rap. Circle around him as he watches your mating ritual, clearly impressed by your skills. As the rap comes to a finish, slowly lower your voice until you're whispering it. Run away when it ends.

    Guys totally love that shit.

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    • Its true, this is exactly how I met my wife.

      Well she drove up in the Oscar Mayer Weiner Mobile, but the rest of it is right on the money.

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        I would have married her too.

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      • flutterhigh

        Wow, she's a keeper!

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    • MrLong!

      Do exactly that, but arrive in a trench coat!
      ;)

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      • taylor-mae14

        with someting sexy under it.

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        • furball?

          with nothing under it. duhhhh lol

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        • MrLong!

          Obviously.

          Just some curves!
          ;)

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    • dalmationUntoyourSoul

      fuck me now.

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    • AlphaAsFuck

      to funnyjunk!

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    • x1frosty16

      Sounds kinda stalkerish and creepy lol

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  • FrancoisDillinger

    Be direct.

    Guys are extremely idiotic when it comes to catching signals lol (at least i know i am)

    Don't say "hey, i'm going to *blah blah* on *blah-day* with some friends. Wanna come?"

    you have to be as simple and as direct as possible. Men aren't used to being asked out.

    No matter how many times a girl has flirted with him, in his mind, it's not much. we're naturally caught off guard.

    lol

    good luck.

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    • Unimportant

      This :)
      I was sitting here and thinking: "How can I put my thoughts into words?"

      And then came Polly*scratch that* you.

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      • FrancoisDillinger

        Danke

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        • Unimportant

          Gern geschehen.

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  • mutherzmilk

    So cute, I remember having a crush. I also remember not having a normal parent to talk to or any one experienced willing to help me for that matter. Hope this helps.

    You will run into people all your life that for one reason or another, will make your knees weak, give you butterflies. or makes you fell that "just gotta have them" So what do you do, how do you make sense of it?

    In your case I would suggest taking a few steps back, and first spend time with him outside of school. You have to see what hes like.

    It may sound egotistical, but You have to have a checklist.
    Its about you. What you like, what you don't like, want and need. What you really dont need. Trust me, it took me many years of wading through allot of girls before I had an idea of what makes me happy, and what to avoid like a plague.

    Don't make a big deal of it,just see if he wants to hang out.
    Don't make it a date, (that's to much pressure)
    Just get together and miniature golf.

    There will be other people there and you can see how you guys get along, with a little competition.

    To keep it short, Get to know him first. Dating and having a good balanced relationship is hard. You dont want to invest that kind of time with someone you really dont know. I know its hard, but dont make your decision based on emotion. If your not sure just wait. Be sure.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Start small talk on Facebook, or some other social based media. Invite him over to hang out, or out to do something, dinner, movie, something simple. It isn't as hard to pick up a guy as girls tend to make it. Most of us would LOVE to be approached by a girl that is interested!

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    • Anime7

      I totally agree on that last part.

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  • SLAYERoftheWICKED

    just be straight up and say.'man..i wanna blow you soooo bad'. :D that should do the trick.

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  • Dad

    Are you friends with his friends?
    Does he have a sister?
    Does he live locally?

    There are a number of options.
    Just start small chat on Facebook and go from there.

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  • fullhouse

    If a guy is at all interested in a girl, he wont care how you approached him.. Most important is not to sound desperate..

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  • kyanviado

    Be yourself, go talk to him get to know him first than the rest should just flow like water

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  • dalmationUntoyourSoul

    you should totally do what some of those people said. not the nasty ones maybe. but it's seriously cool when a girl makes the moves, they shouldn't expect guys to do everything every time. so good for you.

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  • dre

    does he think your sexy

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  • Avant-Garde

    Chat with him on Facebook.

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  • partofeveryone

    Say hi!

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  • MissyLeyneous

    xD Top post... TOP POSTOLOLOLOLOLOLOL~~~~~

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  • blaster

    I wouldn't ask him for his number that kinda turns me off.I'd go more like find an excuse or bring it into some conversation - hey you should call me and we'll talk more or something like that. I dunno can you ask things like that privately on twitter , be fine if you can.

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  • Corleone

    Hey, I just met you
    And this is perfectly normal, it's how socializing works
    But here's my number
    So call me maybe

    I like a girl to talk to me like any other person. You're in the same school, so that's some connection at least. Don't worry too much about whether he'll like you back. You haven't got anything to lose here, you don't even know him yet.

    Just... start talking to him. As long as you're relaxed, he'll be relaxed as well. I can only give you the advice I'd give to a guy: don't use cheesy pick up lines, just start talking with him casually. If things go smoothly, you can ask him to hang out after school.

    Oh yeah, since I'm a journalist, I have to approach people a lot. These are some other tips that usually work for me:

    - Be in a good mood

    - Be confident

    - Don't make a conversation plan. You can think of a topic in case things aren't going smoothly, but normally, a casual 'hey' is alright to start the conversation.

    - Be genuinely interested in what he is saying. Don't just act interested. Most people don't listen, they just wait for their turn to talk (hell, I do that from time to time as well). If you're really interested in someone, he'll open up a lot more, and start to like you.

    That's all I can think of right now. I hope this helps. One last tip: you'd be suprised at how many people want you to talk to them. The worst case scenario is that he ignores you (and that's the WORST scenario), and that's still not a big deal. You've got a lot more to win than to lose.

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  • Sniperdude416

    Talk to him on facebook and ask for his number.Does he play sports

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  • what always drives me crazy is when a girl has her trousers quite low down so you can just see her pussy hair sticking out. it makes me wanna lick it so bad. how old are u btw?

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    • Captain_Kegstand

      Shhh, nobody wants to know.

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  • Dot123

    Ask if he wants to fuck you.

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  • Penis and Balls

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