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My wife gets off talking about lesbian sex while we are having sex...she is very graphic, and tells me how much she wants to eat a girls pussy as i watch!
You don't say whether or not this also turns you on - if not, ask her to stop doing it. IF you get off on it too, what's the harm?
Be careful if you put this fantasy into practice, as any woman introduced into a couple relationship can easily be exploited and then dumped.
Alternatively if your wife hasn't actually been with a woman yet, the experience may be so overwhelmingly pleasurable that she will want that exclusively: this happened a lot in the "swinging" 60's & 70's - blokes wd set this up as a turn on for them and find themselves left for a woman, this is what happened with me when my then (now late ex) husband set up a 3-some with his girlfriend.
Sexuality isn't just a game and women's sexuality is much more fluid than that of men
"this is what happened with me when my then (now late ex) husband set up a 3-some with his girlfriend"
No wonder you are so negative of the male side of an issue.
I wasn't being negative about the "male side" of the issue, I was merely stating facts. I should add that he set it up by telling me she'd suggested a 3-some and then told her I had - not very honest, in fact very manipulative.......and then got shitty because 2 women can have sex for a lot longer than most het couples and we kept him awake
I was making the point that fantasies often become complicated and possibly messy when they're made real.
you should do like me and dress up in heels and skirt and stockings. then you might be woman enough for her.if not i can call round and put all thought of women out of her
Play along? Why don't you eat her out? Tell her "oh you can't eat a pussy like I can", and then just eat her out like a hungry man for tacos.
Oh, oh. Sounds like she's gently letting you know you don't do it for her any more.
Don't take it too hard, a lot of guys marry women who later realize they were always gay. Don't take it as though you turned her gay or anything.