Is it normal for your wife to have regular sex but not kiss you

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I am married for 20 years. We had a kid before getting married and kissed a lot. About a year after getting married she stopped kissing me. Sex is normal but feels non-intimate without kissing. We are happily married! What wrong? Is this normal? I am romantic and does everything to please her. We have discussed but she reply: "I really do not know why"

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  • Mel
    12 years ago

    After a while of being together, kisses arent as exciting as they were in the beginning, thats normal. But they should still be loving/comforting & every now and again...passionate. I think theres some issues going on that youre not aware of, and I dont specifically mean cheating..could be anything.

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  • j0sh88
    12 years ago

    maybe she was a prostitute and has just got used to having sex without kissing

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    Doesn't seem to me like you two are really happily married.

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  • GothBabe
    12 years ago

    That's wierd. If you are happy and comfortable together then she should kiss you.

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  • I_steal_free_bread
    12 years ago

    Ram your crotch in her face and see if she likes it

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  • hardcandy
    12 years ago

    I'm not a big kisser, and it drives my fiance nuts. I used to kiss him all the time, but after years and years together, I don't particularly want to. I love him, but only want to "make out" if I've had a few drinks. I think the lack of kissing is no big deal. Pour her a strong drink and give her a big wet one before hitting the sack!

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  • Noonesperfect
    12 years ago

    Bad teeth or breath?

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  • thegift
    12 years ago

    Have you ever heard how prostitutes don't kiss their clients? Its kinda like that. In other words, I think she's cheating on you.

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  • Dissmebabe
    7 years ago

    Not at all? What does she say about why not? I'd hate that.

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  • theabider
    11 years ago

    Maybe she, like me, prefers kisses on the neck, and elsewhere. While kisses on the lips are sweet, it could be one of the least stimulating areas.

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  • armybrat123
    12 years ago

    Maybe she is trying to enjoy the sex more because she can kiss you any time?

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    She doesn't love you anymore either that or your breath stinks

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    just go for it she will kiss you back no doubt your choice wait for it or jump right in :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    What do you define as regular sex?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Maybe your breath has started smelling, and she doesn't want to offend you?

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    • helenjewett
      12 years ago

      if they've been married for 20 years. talking about bad breath shouldn't be offensive. =\

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  • umkaspy
    12 years ago

    Learn how to kiss !!! all of you morons who stick their tongues out and start poke and slobber every peace of skin, and when she just wants one dry sensual kiss--- you put that .... out right in her mouth again , and instead of feel your soft worm lips she should suck on your cold stinky spitt!!
    very sexual isn't it?
    p.s. 90 percent of you guy kiss like a shtt!

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    • B^{D
      12 years ago

      i consider myself a good kisser.....and girls tell their friends and i find out cus they like to gossip

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  • funnigyalxx
    12 years ago

    just grab her and kiss her very hard man get in there xxx

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    • sleepingbeauty
      12 years ago

      Absolutely not! Offer her some passiveness, lay back and ask her to kiss you the way she wants to kiss. Match her lip and mouth movements, but don't be tempted to take over and leave your tongue in your mouth! unless she uses hers. Its called 'learning what each other likes', try it you might have a pleasant surprise.

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