Is it normal for your spouse to make you sick

Since my wife and I married last year, and we both led very different lives during the years we were apart; it seems that whatever I happen to do as habit tends to make her sick. She cooks the best of anyone, even my mother, but will not clean up behind herself, I do it or it doesn't get done. The first 9 months were very hard on us, she lost her job, she lost her car, and we had to move. Now she has developed diabetes, verified when she went to the doctor and had a level of 495. She's always sick or tired. She's about to go blind too. She seems to be feeling good when I'm not around, but when I'm around she's sick to her stomach.

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  • BoredGuy

    Ask her how shw feels about you.

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  • MegaDerp

    Tell her to stfu and get back in the kitchen and make u a sandwich

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    • cliffMFclavin

      so original. jk it's not

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  • mission

    I had no idea that there were so many people out there that are real sickies. It is almost like I'm talking to people who live on the streets, on second thought, even when I was on the streets the homeless spent their time in the libraries or wherever had internet access and most of them stuck to the games. I've been using the net now for about four years and I've still never played a game on the net. So, I bid all of you out there farewell, have a good game and I hope you win.

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    • Tehboss

      thank you for the compliment and everyone knows only charlie wins

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  • Tehboss

    ask for a refund she is broken and while you are at it ask for a better model to repay for the damage done to you :)

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  • mission

    I'm hoping that the diabetes that we were both unaware of, may have been playing a big part in our moods towards each other. When she came out of the doctors office last week and told me that she had been diagnosed as diabetic with a 495 sugar level, it literally stopped me in my tracks. The next day she had 343, and her mood was much better. The doctor gave her a sample box with a complete unit to check her levels ten times. She damaged three sticks trying to learn how to use it, but when she got it right it had lowered in one day to 343. We didn't have anymore sticks to use for the next three days, so all we could do was to watch the diet. I got some more stick and now she's at 340. I'd hoped for lower, but it might take a week or so to get it down to near normal levels. When you're spouse gets sick like this, so unexpectantly, she and I have tried extra hard to pull together and get her health under control. There's still things that we disagree on, but we're more flexible with each other now I think.

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  • Noonesperfect

    trollolololololololololololollololol

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  • mission

    to devilla; I got her something somewhat as a hobby, a resident at the opposite end of this tiny complex got evicted, she left a piano. For better or worse the two guys that got the job to empty our the apartment left the piano for last; who wants to move a piano? So, since my wife is a piano teacher(private), I finally convinced her to go look at it because the other two guys were going to put it on Ebay. After being gone for about half an hour she comes back all happy and smiles and excited, this was before the diabetes diagnosis, one day before, and she told me that she had promised the guys 300. for it if they'd not put it on Ebay and let her/us have it. they agreed. When she came back and told me this I was about to die! All I wanted to have her do was to give an estimate of its worth, she did at 1,500. But when I looked it up on the net it shows 585 to 800. Still I didn't have anyone to move it. That cost me another 55. And we have rent to pay and all the bills come in at once. Lord, she broke us in one move. Anyway I figured that she had a piano she could clean up and either try to sell, or give lessons on. Nope, she could give lessons on it if she had the students, she doesn't anymore, as for cleaning it up; she'll do a little and stop, do a little and stop. She got diagnosed diabetic and went to sleep, three days nearly now. She even missed her four week reporting for the unemployment, but she went today and cleared that up. She's only got about four weeks left of that and then what? So, a maid, or a hobby, no, a job would be better, but that is if she could stay awake to do it. We can't afford the sticks to test her sugar, so since she's already run out of those, what now? It was good of you to try to suggest something realistic, but economics doesn't support anything at the moment. as for megaderp--- stfu? still have no idea, but for me to just take my wife and put her in bed and screw her? That could be construed as rape, and I will not do that! Murders, and rapists belong six feet under, not in prison. Making love is a double edged sword, both must want it and both consent to it and hopefully both can orgasm with it.

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  • MegaDerp

    To mission stfu and go get laid ya old fuck

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  • i have read your story and replies. my advice will sound simplistic and i hope not too condescending. Get a hobby/interest/mens group and go out more.
    the stress is enormous for you both i know an the money as well , if you can manage it financially could you get someone to come in once a week and just clean the surfaces in your home? the floors and barthroom. 2 hour job it's amazing how much difference this could make. your wife might clean more herself since she would be only doing the smaller details (which are satisfying) Another tactic could be sit down and itemize things of imoportance to you both and annoyances and have that at hand to add or delete as necessary. money - maybe get her to use nearly All her time entering competitio ns, its not as silly as it sounds. long reply sorry

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  • mission

    megaderp; where you people come up with these names is beyond me. stfu? I have no idea what you're talking about. tell her to get back in the kitchen and make me a sandwich? My God! The last time I heard something like that was in 1996 when my late wife came home all tore up on the inside and told me that her supervisor at Motorola, yes, Motorola; pulled her to a corner where he knew they were off camera and told her that her place was at home either in the kitchen, or on her back in bed! If I'd been half a man then; I'd probably be in a Texas prison for life right now. She was one of two employees at that time that were engineering certified at their jobs. That simply meant that no one could just step in and work her shift for her if she needed to swap shifts for anything, it would actually have to be the other guy who was engineering certified like she was. There was nothing I could do about it. No one else saw or heard anything. And Motorola at that time was Austin's #3 employer. No attorney would take a case like that.

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  • mission

    to 'bored guy', you are bored; you kind of missed the gist of everything that I said. When she feels half way good she's sweet, I just can't touch her because of the diabetic related pain it will cause.
    dafattyfat, you asked a good question; I do not try to stress her out at all, just seems that when I try to help her it always comes back at me with teeth. Her blood sugar hasn't stabilized yet either, when she was diagnosed her level was 495, the next day she had to go across the street to the firestation to ask the paramedic how to use the device she was given, she came up with a 343 and I thought she said 347. sometimes it is hard to understand her because her mouth is so dry. I have no idea what her level will be this afternoon. She's back to sleeping again. What I do know now is that she doesn't remember how bitchy she was to me this last week. If she had a job, she would've either been fired or furloughed because she can't remember half of what she's doing.
    as for grahamsgirl; Yes, when she's awake and others are around outside she's sweet, but when she comes back in nothing pleases her. She smells odors that are undetectable, I can't clean the house good enough for her; its like she goes through it with a white glove. And yes, we're both under tremendous stress, all personal and economical. I could write a book on all that has happened to us in the past 14 months, but I think I've already done that. So, I'm just trying to straighten out the files on the pc, and get the taxes done, I got extentions for both state and federal income taxes. I think I said that she was living like she had unlimited funding; mainly due to the people she knew had unlimited funding. She wanted to blend in that bad. Plus it took me 11 months to get her to quit smoking. I do feel that the smoking contributed heavily to her conditions now.

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  • grahamsgirl

    I don't know if this is normal or not. How would you know that she is feeling fine when she is not with you? Maybe it makes her terrible sad to know that she will never be able to see your face again pretty soon when she goes blind so she is transferring that stress to her physical health. Stress causes a ton of physical problems. I don't really know what else to say except that I am so sorry for her loss and her health problems. I know its not my fault but I still hope you get through your problems Remember, LOVE ENDURES ALL.

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  • dafattyfat

    you don't stress her out do you?

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