Is it normal for your spouse to always try and touch your butt?

My husband has been driving my insane lately! If I am standing in the bathroom naked, getting ready, he will come and try to touch my butt or stick his fingers in my butt crack. Is this only my husband that does this?! I feel like I don't want to be naked around him because he will try to shove his fingers in my ass.

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Comments ( 24 )
  • howaminotmyself

    Husbands are funny animals.

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    • BigkissesXOXO

      Yes they are!!
      Thanks for your comment!!

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  • mixwell

    i dont know about fingers in butt crack but when ive been with a chick who has a nice body i cant help but to grab her ass all the time. i love it ! ur hubby probably just likes that sweet ass of yours. you should take it as a compliment.

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    • BigkissesXOXO

      Hahahaha thanks for your comment!!

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  • Ejay

    Fingers...in...ass? What? Ill admit if your my wife and standin around naked you wont escape me without a nice ass slap but IN? WHAT?

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    • BigkissesXOXO

      Lol his fingers don't actually go inside my ass, let me add I may like that if that's the case but it's not. He will just put his fingers inside my butt crack and leave them there. It's like when you see a mom that has a babies hand in their food all the time. Well when we are home I have a hand in my ass crack all the time.

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  • Tigger14

    It's normal apart from the bum crack bit just tell him you don't like it because it creeps you out

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    • BigkissesXOXO

      Thanks for commenting!'

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  • moviecollector1983

    I don't know about the putting a finger inside the butt crack part, But when I was with a Girlfriend she's my Ex now. But when we were together I would always used to grab her butt and squeeze on it and slap it lightly or spank it. But I say it's normal it's not harming anybody but if you REALLY don't like it or find it annoying then sit him down at home and ask me kindly why he does it? for one, and then ask me to kindly stop doing it as much.

    To me this would not be a big deal at all, But everyone is different

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  • Hahaha well that's what you're there for. You got off easy, my girls put up with far more than that lol.

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    • BigkissesXOXO

      Hahaha thanks for your comment!!

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  • Energy

    Just tell him not to do it then. It's not much of a marriage if you can't even communicate. When you don't like something TELL HIM!

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    • BigkissesXOXO

      Thanks for your comment.
      I've told him before(multiple times) but I think there's something about that man that makes him never want to listen to me:)
      If anyone has advice of how to make him stop please let me know. I could even go for some revenge >:D

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      • Energy

        How about...do the same thing he does to you ;)

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        • ccjigsaw

          I second this!! xD Some men are all over that, but others are like "Woah woah woah! Don't touch there!" LOL You could have fun with this.

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  • ZitsOnMyButt

    For fucks sake, don't be such a prude. As long as he's not trying to finger your anus without warning I think he's being totally normal.

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    • BigkissesXOXO

      Prude? Obviously you should ask before you assume. I'd rather have a dick in my ass then my husbands fingers hanging around back there!

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  • midas360

    Aside from trying to kiss you all the time, it's normal behavior. We are just trying to show our affection.

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  • WishIWasHere

    He is a guy right! nuff said...

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  • ccjigsaw

    That is very immature!! But so common lol I'm a frequent victim myself. Your husband is an ass man.

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  • Jeaneathean

    Men, eh? (I am a man). If you don't like it, tell him. He sounds rather obnoxiously like me.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    It's normal. I have an urge to do that too.

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  • noid

    I wouldn't like it either. And just cause your married doesn't give your husband the right to do whatever he wants to you if you don't like it.

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  • curiouskate101

    im no expert on this but if you dont like it why not try wearing clothes in your home? just becuz ur married doesnt mean u need to be butt naked all the time. maybe try wearing hot pants or short shorts or at least try a thong he cant do it if he cant get to it. respect ur body and others will becuz if u tell him to stop he should listen

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