Is it normal for your sister to be heartless?

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Let's start out that my sister is a morbidly obese person who has never been in a relationship.

She's heartless. Blunt. Cruel. A couple of days ago she was talking about me behind my back (but I heard everything) about me and my boyfriend, about how I am a horrible person who doesn't trust people and that my boyfriend should get out.

Thing is, I was abused mentally, emotionally, and physically by this ex of mine. I didn't really realize he was doing it until after he dumped me on the phone and said a bunch of shit about me. Then I looked back and realized everything.

She doesn't even care to know what happened and why I am still kind of shake-y and hurting. She just opens her mouth on why I should stop being a pussy and get over my asshole ex.

I am for the most part over it, unless someone says crap like this.

I told her I felt worthless and like a piece of shit, and I started crying. She just looked at me, and said, "I don't care."

IIN?

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Stay away from her, she's toxic. Anyway, why would you value her opinion if it's not helpful? There's always sibling rivalry and she's probably jealous of you.

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    • Skibunny1
      12 years ago

      I feel bad for you. As much as she is horrid as a sister, i feel bad for her too because she is probably really jealous or hurting. I still feel worse for you though, stay away from her

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  • ThisIsNotAUsername
    12 years ago

    You say your sister's a back stabber with no heart, yet you post this on the internet beginning with 'She's morbidly obese and never had a relationship'.

    Perhaps it just runs in the family...

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  • sexy_chicka
    12 years ago

    ohh reading this makes me wana punch your sister in the face!!

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  • Oli
    12 years ago

    Thisisnotausername, she could have said that to make a point on why she acts like this.

    I dunno, if you where obese and never been in a relationship, wouldn't you feel jealous?

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    • ThisIsNotAUsername
      12 years ago

      I don't know. I don't have, nor ever had, either of those problems.
      All i'm saying is, whereas the 'She's never been in a relationship' part may offer some kind of relevance, i don't see how her sisters weight will. It's as if she's saying obese people can't be happy or find a significant other.

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  • lovebuzz1025
    12 years ago

    She's jealous. Plain and simple. And doesnt care to hear about your relationship because it makes her jealous knowing you can get a boyfriend and she can't. I know people like this.

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  • NothingxCrazy
    12 years ago

    My sister is EXACTLY the same. Overweight and just a cold hearted bitch.. When I was younger I actually cried myself to sleep because of the verbal abuse she put me through. At one point I contemplated just killing myself because I just couldn't take it anymore.
    It's normal for me. To this day she still acts like this but she's less blunt about it.

    Advice.. even if you are over it, don't listen to a word she says. She's just upset because you're doing things she hasn't and thinks you have a better life than her and you shouldn't complain. Clearly she shouldn't judge the situation before she knows the facts.

    Screw her and be happy!

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  • dafattyfat
    12 years ago

    She's probably never been through what you've been through, and doesnt understand what you're going through, and is jealous that you actually get men, and thinks you should be happy just because you've had one.
    you should try get her out more or something.

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