Is it normal for your partner to say she gives head but not to you?

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I have been in a relationship for the past 8 months. Not once has she ever given me head, however she says she does. I have done everything sexually that she has requested or even hinted at and worked overtime to ensure her needs are met. When I confront her about returning the favor; she repeatedly tells me "She's Holding Out". When I ask "Why are you holding out, I hold back nothing when it comes to you", she will either stop talking or change the conversation. I have never been in a relationship where my partner wasn't open to discussing or helping to relate to why they choose to do such things. I have done everything to try to figure this out and hopefully resolve this frustrating issue. It's extremely difficult when she will be talking to her friends and bragging about, yeah I give head and when they look at me, she's quick to respond "Not to him". Is this normal, and does anyone have any recommendations?

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  • Digsbie
    7 years ago

    prob time to move on

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    You, it seems with your desire to "work overtime to do everything she wants or even hints at", are submissive. She is being dominant.

    If you want this dichotomy to change, you need to stop being so eager to please her. Now I'm not suggesting you need to "slap the bitch and force feed her your cock", but at least start conditional negotiations.

    Examples -

    She asks you to go down on her, you say "not until you give me a blowjob".
    She wants you to take her to the movies to see some chick-flick, you say "not until you give me a blowjob".
    She wants you to go with her to her friend's party, you say "not until you give me a blowjob".

    Let "not until you give me a blowjob" be your mantra. At best, you'll get your knobed sucked. At worst, she will dump your ass and you can find someone else who will gobble your goodies.

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    A chick tried that with me once, I ended up kicking her out the house at 2am. At 2:10 she was back at my door asking to come in and at 2:03 she was giving me a blow job.

    All in all, her skills were not so good anyway.

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    • mokuton
      7 years ago

      This would probably be my response also. I would have fucked her in her ass before throwing her out though

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    • yanks1998
      7 years ago

      I ended up kicking her out the house at 2am. At 2:10 she was back at my door asking to come in and at 2:03 she was giving me a blow job

      the time frame doesnt coincide.
      How could she come back at 2:10 and blowing you at 2:03 ?

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      • IMissMary
        7 years ago

        I was drunk when I wrote that....so what

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        • bigfatdick4
          7 years ago

          I thought either this dude is drunk or he time travelled, fuck now I am dissapointed!

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          • agarwal1931998
            7 years ago

            Whatever it was you kicked her out she came back and instead of anything else like apologizing or explanation she blew you off.. so fuciking lucky. I wonder if i open my gate at that tym it might probably br a thief lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    If she didn't do it in general that would make sense, but she is signaling you out. Obviously she doesn't respect you. She will use you until she gets bored and get rid of you.
    Be the first to say you are done with her. Tell her she is a bitch for bragging about doing things for other guys and not you. As her boyfriend you are entitled to be first place. She sounds like a real cunt.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Maybe there's something about your dick she doesn't like?

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  • Edgeofhumanity
    7 years ago

    You're her bland land guy not her hot n heavy guy. You need to stop kow towing, and start demanding. If she doesnt compromise, dump her.

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  • FlameDragoon
    7 years ago

    Teach her a lesson by dumping her ass

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  • Robert_Frustrated
    7 years ago

    I do tie her up on a regular basis! Next time, I'll go for the mouth, if she locks up and says "No", she's getting it in the ass and then I'm done!

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  • heckleBucker
    7 years ago

    She is lying; she doesn't give anybody head. She's manipulative and thinks that withholding sex is a way to get what she wants from you.

    Toss her in the dumpster and go back to the bar to get a new whore.

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  • Robert_Frustrated
    7 years ago

    Wow some of you are pretty hard core! I will start refusing her requests. And I am the more dominate one in the relationship.

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  • bigfatdick4
    7 years ago

    I think that the next time she says that in company you should retort with "yea that right, she does not blow me, but her Mother / sister does!

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  • mokuton
    7 years ago

    fucking beat her until she goes down on you

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  • bittermayonnaise
    7 years ago

    "yeah I give head and when they look at me, she's quick to respond "Not to him". Is this normal, and does anyone have any recommendations?"

    I recommend you facefuck the shit out of her Bro, she's humiliating you, you fucking pussy, grow a pair then bounce em off her chin!

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  • yanks1998
    7 years ago

    Tell her
    " If you are not going to give me any head and swallow my kids , then hit the street bitch and don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya. "

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    • Robert_Frustrated
      7 years ago

      Thought about that. I actually told her "If you don't take care of business, someone else will"....didn't help.

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      • yanks1998
        7 years ago

        Give her a swift kick in the ass.
        If she is your girlfriend and she is blowing other dude's and not you is a sure sign that she is not your girlfriend.
        What is wrong with your cock why she wont give you blowjobs ?
        Tell her that you dont share and youre not going to kiss her knowing that she just let some dude pop a nut in her mouth and down her throat.
        You dont want sloppy seconds and you dont want to smell some other dude's jizzm on her breath and youre not going to stick your tongue in her mouth and taste some other guy's cum.
        Tell her that will make you puke.
        Tell her if she is blowing multiple guy's and not her boyfriend , then she is a skanky whore.
        Her mouth is only a cum dumpster.
        Are you sure her bald cunt and her asshole aren't cum dumpsters for other guys too ?
        Tell her to take her clothes off and lay on her back and spread eagle with her legs spread as wide as she can up in the air or tell her to put her feet behind her ears so you can smell her twat and her poop chute and stick your fingers in her snatch and asshole and see if you can see or smell other guys cum inside of her cunt and asshole.
        Tell her to get an STD test before you stick your cock in her cunt and asshole again.

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        • Robert_Frustrated
          7 years ago

          Now I didn't say she's doing other guys. She just lets it be know that she does and did in the past, but just doesn't with me.

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          • yanks1998
            7 years ago

            She tells her friends that she does give head but not to you means presently and currently.
            She didnt say to her friends that she use to give head in the past to other guys.
            She wouldnt have to say that , its obvious that all girls have given head to other guys in the past.
            Dont be a fool.
            I didnt know I had to draw a map.
            The writing is on the wall.
            NObody can be this naive.
            Its not rocket science.

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