Is it normal for your parent (mother) to touch you jokingly?

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Since i could remember my mum has always been playfully touching me. Sometimes she does it to my sisters and it seems like her way of kidding around but recently i've just been feeling disturbed by it.
I don't understand why she would touch my breast or butt. it's uncomfortable.
I think it's also making me act out a little. i'm almost always angry, especially when she's around.
So, i don't know what it means but i've told her to stop.

yes it's normal 5
no it's not normal 3
it could be just for fun 5
something's a little off there 6
That's definitely wrong 4
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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    the butt isn't weird. playful taps are nothing.

    as for the breasts it depends... how long are you talking? playful swats or long gropes. and have you said anything about it?

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Maybe your Mum wants to suck you off. You should ask her.

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  • seabird_71
    12 years ago

    I hate when my mom does that, it's VERY uncomfortable, and I have told her countless times to stop doing that. But I think the area she does that the most is just my bottom. To me it's weird and I would never do that to my kids, I don't know, maybe it's just that generation.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I don't think she should be touching your breasts even if it's just joking. I mean my mum sometimes when she's going past me, she holds my hips for a few seconds and that's uncomfy enough but it's just to make me move so she can get past.

    But not on the boobies, that's not normal.

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    I guess your or your sisters ages might be helpful in assessing the situation.

    It can just be playful, there are people with need for closer physical contact, and ones without that need. If your mum always was more of a contact person, then i wouldn't worry about that.

    I, personally, get irritated by close-contact people that "invade" my privacy sphere, touching me without knowing me, even if just on the shoulder or holding my hand, but i know thats just the way they are...with everybody, and don't hold it against them. I MAY tell them i'm not comfortable with that, and usually they have no problem cutting back a bit, but if something is "normal" to someone, they act that way unless there's a reason not to.

    Try talking with her, and tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable when she does that, because it feels she's, however playful, invading your "privacy".

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