Is it normal for your grandma to shave your balls?
Okay, I know this is going to sound odd, but it's my real life situation and I could use an opinion.
To explain, I'm 24 years old, disabled, and in a wheelchair. For most of my life I was unable to do things for myself due to my disability, and needed assistance with much of my daily chores. Growing up, my mom was never very helpful or responsible, and my dad ran out on us when I was little, so for the most part, my grandmother had been my main caregiver.
In the end it was all fine, grandma helped me get dressed, get off to school, do whatever I needed, but more recently I've become a bit troubled by some of the "help" she wants to give me.
It all started a few months back, when she became almost obsessed about me finding a girlfriend. I told her not to worry about it, that it was my issue, but she kept insisting that I be "presentable for the ladies," and that I need to be "a big boy". Now that's fine and all, and I completely understand her wanting to help.. but she's been getting way too personal..
For instance, about a month ago, she told me that if I ever wanted to please a girlfriend, I would need to have smooth balls. Now, I was IMMEDIATELY taken off guard by this, and felt VERY uncomfortable, but she insisted that I let her make that happen, so after a bit of begging and pleading, I finally gave in.
To be honest, it felt nice, but it was still so awkward, especially since she kept saying things like "there's my big boy!", and "The ladies won't be able to keep their hands off of you".. and probably the most disturbing "Oh my! You have a big one!".
Granted, I do need help..er.. reaching down there -- I can't do it myself, but even though it feels so good, and DOES look way better.. I can't help but feel that it just isn't normal; that whatever is going on is weird and probably shouldn't be happening.
This has been going on every other day for over a month.. and actually, after I get done posting this, I'll probably be due for another shave (they get itchy if you don't keep up), but I was hoping to get some feedback here on my issue.
I'm so conflicted over it!
Thank you all so much.