Is it normal for your gf to rush engagement

My girlfriend it seems like almost every day is saying "Let's get engaged", "Let's get married", or "Propose to me". I tell her all the time that I am not finished with college yet and I really want to wait until I'm done with school to get married. I am a full-time student and looking for a part-time job so as of right now I have no job and I tell her that I am trying to get a job so that I can save up for a ring but still I want to do it when the time feels right. It seems that every time the subject comes up now we start arguing about it. I tell her that I'm not getting married until I get done with college and she says "I can't wait that long". Is it normal for a girl to try and rush their boyfriend repeatedly every week like that.

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Based on 51 votes (18 yes)
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  • Alison89

    This sounds like trouble to me already. You've told her your reasons for not asking her yet, which isn't because you don't care about her enough, but because the timing isn't right - you want to finish school and you want to be able to afford a ring for her.

    Even though you've given her legitimate reasons, she still argues with you about it. That's not a good sign. It sounds like she only cares about getting what she wants and doesn't care what you want and doesn't listen to reason.

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  • Its_Called_Love

    She probably just has issues with abandonment. She wants you to marry her so she knows you won't leave her. I know plenty of chicks like that. Just sit her down, and tell her you love her and you aren't going anywhere.

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  • sweetie_pie09

    I think it is very important to finish school because it shows you care about your future. Propose when your ready but dont wait around too long. Remember, that if this is the girl of your dreams not only are you choosing her, but she is choosing you also. Because you don't want to loose each other, talk to one another and do what you feel is best.

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  • coolio75650932

    AND THIS IS MY INPRESSION OF THIS GUYS GF '' marry me gimme that ring you haventhat you syupid grandma(no offense) gave you on her death bed GIMME GIMME GIMME GIMME plwease marry me i dont give a fuck if we be hobos just marry me LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL where braking up im going with this guy who is a hobo (homo :3) and gonna have a three man foursome but il do nothing and sit there so marry me or that happens

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  • ccjigsaw

    Not to scare you or anything, but a reason for this might be that she's made a huge mistake and wants to marry you so that when she lets it out, you can't leave her. Not likely!! lol but a possibility. But honestly, if she can't calm down and stop pushing you tell her to back off :/ Just like how guys shouldn't push girls for sex, girls shouldn't push guys to do things they're not ready to do.

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  • auzzie

    Try a different tactic.. Plan/pay for a holiday that is far in the future, get her a promise ring, consider moving in together, have a long engagement, get a shared pet, set a date such as within the next few years, but say you want it to be a surprise.

    She seems to be afraid that you are not committed so take steps to show her that.

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  • lc1988

    Ha I kinda used to be that girl..I didn't understand why my bf didn't propose to me...but then I found out he was still married to someone else. Anyways, you need to be straight with her and tell her your plans. Also, since she keeps on bugging, say "don't you want it to be a surprise?" For me, I'd rather it be a surprise than keep begging for it ya know? Anyways, just let her know that she is the one you want to spend your life with, she just needs to be patient...if that is in deed the case.

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  • auburntigersfan

    please give some feedback to let me know if I'm the only one going through this or if anyone else has went through this in the past

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  • HeardsOfSheep

    Just fuck her. its for the best.

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    • coolio75650932

      by fuck her you mean have sex :3

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