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So my friends always put me down.
And since I just moved and made these friends, I don't know who else to hang out with.
They talk about how ugly and fat I am when I'm at a normal weight. Also, they talk about me all the time when I can hear them. Do anyone elses friends put them down or is it just me.
They are being bitches and bullying you, I'm sorry to say. It would be better to try and make some new friends since they are blatantly not your friends if they talk about you like that and more so by doing it in front of your face they are being extra mean.
Join clubs or something where you can find other people to hang out with and who will be a true friend to you :)
Good luck and whatever you do, do not listen to them! :)
No, that is NOT normal, and those people are NOT friends. Friends do not treat you like that. There is a saying - "with friends like that, who needs enemies?"
Real friends take it in turn to be the butt, if you just put the same person in a group down all the time that just makes them the scapegoat.
It may seem like you have to be really brave to stop seeing these "friends", but it is better to bite the bullet now and find new friends, because hanging with these guys will bring your self-esteem lower.
I agree with BlackRoseVale. These are not friends and you need to forget them and make some actual friends - not just people to hang out with. If you hang out with people who are mean you will probably start to feel bad about yourself - don't do it.
Come hang out with me, Me and my friends never rip on each other. We will treat you right, we like summer BBQs and hanging out at the beach.
My friends used to do this. They would do it in a different way though. They would always try to give me fashion advice and tips on how to make myself look better when i never even asked for their opinion. They would be like your hair is healthy but you would look so much better if you cut it this way and wore it this way. You would look way better if you wore this and this. Can we go to the mall today and I'll pick out your whole outfit. Funny thing is, i get more compliments on my appearance than they do! So they are not your friends and probably are just JEALOUS of you. Do your own thing for a while and you will make better friends eventually. Real friends. Besides i am sure that you are not ugly or fat, so be confident and ignore the comments from them.
One of my friends is Like tht she tlk about each and evry one of us and then denies it she acts nice to ur face but then u hear what she was saying and she puts all of us down like making fun if ur clothes or saying ur fat even tho I'm as skinny as her and just puts evryone down with there flaws and believe me she has plenty herself