Is it normal for your family and friends to dehumanize you

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i try to hide my self from people cause what my family and friends done to me,they try to find out everything i do and then use it to exploit my personal life to others where as other's treat me the same way.make it as i'm the wrong person,in truth they try to find out everything bad about me and use it on me,make it where i cant defend my self(dehumanize me).in truth im a very good person i dont bother no one.and i dont try to find out people wrong doing then hurt them with it,im a very good person,

is this normal does this happen to you.please this would be very help full

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  • ajayllg
    9 years ago

    WOW ...i call that a good day compared with my dream killing, bad mouthed ,lousy family.
    if it aint violence its mind games with mine

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    • stevieo
      9 years ago

      same with mine,how old r u im 25 been going on sence i was 13

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        Why are grown adults still dealing with parental problems?

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        • stevieo
          9 years ago

          you know that is so true and to be honest for me,im suffering with social anxiety,i'm scaredd to talk to people,and also im scared to be alone all by my self cause i dont konw how to take care of my self.i was thinking the same question,why am i dealing with this,mostly cause i have incress depression and lonlyness and dont know how to live without my self,but trust i am working on that,im been thinking how ima take a bath get something to eat have things to wear and how ima try to make sure they dont get stolen and i figure it out im best of living in the woods.alone with a solar panel power station to keep me going. and take some plant's to grow.cause truly im tired of society im bout ready to leave.

          i mostly find it hard to survive if i have social anxiety cause a person need to socialze to get help,i dont do that?

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          • [Old Memory]
            9 years ago

            You have social anxiety but are afraid to be alone? That sounds like an oxymoron to me.

            I would imagine social anxiety would make it hard to find work. I don't have social anxiety but I have aspergers and schizoaffective which makes socializing difficult to understand causing problems when I work or whoever I live with.

            Do you live in a country that gives out disability? I don't think its for everyone but if youre having a hard time at work or applying for a job it can be useful to get you started in life. If you cannot go in person you can sometimes apply over the internet.

            Good luck.

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            • stevieo
              9 years ago

              i was diagnosis with schizophrenia.

              and when im alone i tend to get very paranoid i once ran out the house i was so paranoid and never went back in.

              and i had a counsoler that said i had schizoaffective disorder.trully i dont konw if i want to work i feel so depressed ;i feel so lost i feel so bad in my life and so hopeless,i feel hopeless hopelessness i feel utter hopeless,im not playing you ever felt like your already dead inside.when i was young i was full of life now idk i dont have thee will to.its like my essence is dead inside

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            • stevieo
              9 years ago

              ok frist dont call me a oxymoron.second i was diagnosis with schizophrenia in 2009 in 2014 it was schizoaffective,social anxiety is something when a person have fear that someone is takling bad about them when they in a socal enviorment with out any fact of it being true.and when i said i have social anxiety and scared to be alone i ment,when im alone i start to get very paranoid very very paranoid i even run out the house one time cause i felt like someone was in there with me.at the same time i dont like to be around people.i dont even know if i want to work i have a hard time comprhrending what im reading.im devloped a habbit of lazyness(sad i know)i have utter depression like i have no will to move on i fell utter hopelessness,you fell like this sometimes i do.its like i have no more will to move on what so ever,its not even will its more its like my essence just want to die.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    These problems are as simple to fix as moving on from them and don't look back.

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  • Mother2All
    9 years ago

    No its not normal! Its wrong of them to do that to you, i went an still go through something kinda like that. Only insted of them being total asses like that im raising two kids that arent mine an getting no credit at all

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      you are a beautiful person to raise kids not your own,i would't be suprise if they grown up to be lawyar are doctor are even something more

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      • Mother2All
        9 years ago

        Nope one is going to grow up to be a drunk an the other is goimg to be a ho

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          may i ask why?

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          • Mother2All
            9 years ago

            One wants to be just like daddy an the other is a ho, shes smart as hell but is a total ho

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              9 years ago

              how old r they?

              and how is she a ho how do you know? have anyone told you?

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    That is not your family, and those are not your friends.

    And yes, it does happen to me. For reasons I do not know, people go out of their way to seek out the very worst in me; when that fails they fabricate things to vilify me at their will. I'm the bad guy, despite the fact that I'm not actually bad at all.

    As I've said before, people need a boogeyman; and if they can't find one, they create one.

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    • stevieo
      9 years ago

      how old r u im 25

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        Somewhat older than you.

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    • stevieo
      9 years ago

      thanks im glad to know that im not the only one.there's something need to be done with these evil people.

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