Is it normal for your ex to say he misses having sex with you?

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I was with this guy for a couple months, then I moved away. 9 months flew by and we decided to meet again. I was still in love with him. We spent that day together and of course, had sex and it felt like we were back together. After our lives went back to normal.. i called him 2 days after our meet up (which was in feb.) and he told me that he isn't looking for a relationship, let alone a commitment. He proceeded to tell me after that the night we made love, it wasn't even that great. WOW.

I was devastated that I waited 9 months to hear this crap but knew this was for the better.

Just this morning (it's the middle of march, about a month since our meet up), he texts me saying that he misses having sex with me. I appreciate the honesty but I would much prefer hearing him say he misses me... who i am as an individual instead of the fact that I have a vagina.

what is up with this?

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Based on 25 votes (14 yes)
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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Well it seems like he was just using you for sex. It seems like he had manipulated the situation and when you wanted to see him again he wanted an excuse to not see you anymore. So he tried to blame it on you. You are not the one at fault here. As key board said which I agree with he probobly ran out of other people to fuck. So he has come to you which is the last resort. If I were you I would meet up with him again and do something to make him look like a dick in a very public area/situation. You deserve better and should be valued for more not just your vagina as you said. Some people have no respect. I would say do something like go out with him and start screaming he gave you Chlamydia and start a fake fight saying all his humiliating secrets and spill some hot coffee IN HIS FACE. Just accidentally knock over everything and spill all over him. Do something that will look really bad for him and dismiss it as you were having a blonde moment.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    He's an asshole.

    No...no...that's too strong.

    No, it isn't. He's an asshole.

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  • KeyboardSolo
    13 years ago

    It's obvious. All his other sexual prospects have abandoned his pathetic ass and he's just looking to get laid again. It's not about you as a person, at all. You just have a vagina and he thinks you're easily manipulated enough to let him use it. Whether or not he's wrong about that is up to you...

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    • thegift
      13 years ago

      ^ vaginal manipulation. Tell me more!

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  • thegift
    13 years ago

    sounds like a great guy.

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    • helenjewett
      13 years ago

      you mean God's gift to women.

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